It's not about you - NY Times hits the mark.

[Periwinkle]

<p>@Invent, and if you’re not happy and fulfilled, your psychiatrist/life coach/ex-wife might be! ;)</p>

<p>On a serious note, though, if that’s your goal, that’s your goal. Just, pursue it because you want it.</p>

<p>@Ssacdfamily,

But if we are programmed to want to belong to groups (and I think there is some basis for that - not 100%, but certainly not 0% either), then let’s have it be a positive group rather than a negative group.

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<p>People vary. Not everyone wants to belong to groups. [Caring</a> for Your Introvert - Magazine - The Atlantic](<a href=“http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/03/caring-for-your-introvert/2696/]Caring”>Caring for Your Introvert - The Atlantic)</p>