UT Austin takes 90% of their incoming class from instate applicants so it’s a reach for all out of state students.
Only look at the 75th percentile for your safety schools. Your match and reaches you should only look at the acceptance rate because almost all the applicants will be like you in terms of stats.
BU’s acceptance rate is 25%. I would put that in a low reach category, not a match.
Case Western would be a match for you. You would just need to demonstrate interest and let them know you are serious about them because it appears they practice yield protection. Similarly U. of Roch and IU would also be a match. You might get merit all all three.
If you need merit to make things affordable, you need to rethink all the Ivies as they only offer need based financial aid. Push your parents into have the conversation now so you have a budget.