Ivy VS. Honors College at state school?

Which do you get a better education at?
And which would I have a better chance of getting in at?
And what do you do if you have been slightly inconsistent (due to transferring schools) with extracurriculars involvement at school?

If a dramatic family/natural disaster occurred during your high school career that affected your grades, do colleges take that into account? Serious stuff like house destroyed in earthquake, father died in military service, etc.
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Major: Bio/Food Science
Schools: University of Missouri-Columbia, University of Illinois-Urbania , Cornell, Standford, Princeton, other Ivys…

High School Stats
GPA:
Wighted- 4+ (F, Sp,Jr,Sr.)
Unweight: 4 (F, Sp), 3.6 (Jr.), 3.4 (Sr.)
Rank top 10% of 2k
ACT: 32
AP:
Jr year- bio5, APUSH 5, Lang 4, self study Envisci 4
Current AP classes : Chem, Calc AB, Psychology, Lit

Extra Curricular
FBLA (F,Jr,Sr)- competed at state level
Environmental Club VP (Sp)
Engineering Club Pres (Sp)
Political Science Club Secretary (Sr.)
Math Team (Jr)
NHS (Sp, Jr, Sr)
Theatre set building (Sp)
Fencing (F, Sp)
Volunteering at the Zoo 170+ hours (Jr.)
Assistant camp Counselor

~Training competitive k-9 obedience for 8 years
Awards (from National Breed Clubs):
Twice Highest Scoring Obedience Junior of Year
Twice top 20 Obedience Final year end standings
Won a National Specialty Competition

What’s your EFC and, if different, parents ’ budget?
You’re in at Mizzou Honors; do apply to Truman State too.
Have you run the NPC on the others?

My grandparents gave me ~70-80k for higher education. But my parents income would put me very close to the cutoff line for "if accepted, parents pay none " at Princeton .

I did get accepted to Mizzou honors. Truman dose not have a good agricultural /food science program.
I don’t have all my parents money info to run NPC.

I’m just wondering if I would have a good enough extra curriculars to be considered at prestigious .

Thank you.

Look at Cfans at UMinnesota Twin Cities, it’s a very very good program if you can still apply for Honors and scholarships there.
Cornell has a superb Food Science program.
Another university with such a program is McGill in Canada.

Ask your parents’ info and run the NPC for all colleges on your list.

Try and find the job placement rates for the honors colleges (might be a little hard and require you contacting them) as well as the ivies. You can also go ok LinkedIn and look at where graduates are employed and see what kind of people went there.