I just wanted some advice for Homecoming, there is this girl that I am taking to homecoming as friends.It gets kinda sticky since I know that she barely likes me even as a friend yet she still accepted my invitation, so I am sort of lost at what I should about the situation, as I feel a little uncomfortable. Some additional info is this is my freshman year, and she is and introvert and I am like a big extravert, in case it helps!
Enjoy the game and don’t get ahead of yourself.
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What advice do you need?
She accepted your invitation because she wants to go to homecoming.
She’s feeling awkward because she may have only accepted because you may have been the only person who has asked her and she wanted to go.
Don’t put pressure on her to chat.
Do you know how she is around her friends? If she’s quiet around them, she may not know herself yet.
What do you know about her? Is she a musician? In clubs? Sports?
Put yourself in her place and make her feel safe. Find things in common to laugh about. Don’t make it about “romance”.
My husband didn’t know how to dance, so he avoided dances and people who asked and never went out.
Say, “hey, i forgot to ask you if you know how to dance because I’m not very good at it. Soooo, How about that during the fun fast music, we just do jumps?”
“You tell me how you want to have fun.”
It’s about making her feel comfortable.
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Thanks a bunch, very helpful to hear!!
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