<p>What do you guys think about dating one girl throughout college? am i missing out on crazy hookups at parties that i will talk about for ages?</p>
<p>If you have to ask, you’re probably looking for a reason to ditch your girl so you can hook up with others.</p>
<p>That being said, dump her and get some more tail.</p>
<p>overrated… stay with your gf if you’re happy</p>
<p>If you’re seriously going to online college sites to help you decide if you should stay with your girlfriend or dump her to hook up with other girls, please do her a favor and get far away from her.</p>
<p>^This. 10char.</p>
<p>I think you answered your own question. It’s quite clear that you want to hook up. Dump your girlfriend and have some fun. Or, if you are the more insidious type, have sex with others behind her back…</p>
<p>I think it’s good to allow yourself some space during college to date and figure what kind of person is right for you.</p>
<p>I remember my girlfriend from high school. I was soooo into her (puppy-love), but after dating different girls and finding the right one (I’m married), I can honestly say that she was an emotional wrecking-ball and would have made my life a living hell. </p>
<p>The emotionally damaged ones are fun for a night, but not for a lifetime.</p>
<p>If you are happy with your girlfriend and want try and make it work, go for it…whatever makes you the happiest. However, if you think that you will give into temptation and cheat, it’s better to just ends things more maturely.</p>
<p>As KG told Lebron…loyalty can hurt you.</p>
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<p>I try to keep an open mind and I think I have a somewhat easy going personality, but you should honestly be ashamed of yourself.</p>
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<p>This is much better advice. Don’t cheat on your girlfriend or boyfriend. It’s wrong and cowardly. Be a man, and either break up with her or stick through the difficult times and be loyal.</p>
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<p>Me? ashamed? Nein. We live in an era of moral relativism, friend. Now, I wouldn’t cheat on my spouse, should I have one, because I see infidelity as wrong, but people have varying degrees of morality and it is up to them to decide whether or not they should do certain things or not.</p>
<p>There are certain things, like pre-meditated murder and theft, which can rarely ever be justified, because they take away things from people, like life and possessions. They are acts of injustice and should be prosecuted with vigor. But, infidelity is a victimless crime. The only victim is the practitioner of infidelity, because he/she must deal with the emotional consequences of lying to one’s spouse. </p>
<p>Think about all the politicians who have cheated on their wives. Have they been punished under any laws? There are practically no laws against infidelity in this country. It is neither right nor wrong, and whether it is right or wrong depends on the person practicing it. </p>
<p>In my opinion, the OP sounds like such a person. And he should allow what he feels is right and be ready to deal with the consequences. I feel that no one should tell him precisely what to do. </p>
<p>Follow your heart, OP. Be prepared for the consequences, however.</p>
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<p>You should have “infidelity is a victimless crime” tattooed to your forehead so everybody knows not to date you.</p>
<p>some people look down upon hooking up. It just doesn’t feel right to them. Other people get as much action as they can get their hands on. People are different.</p>
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<p>this guy really comparing our laws to our human conscious? really??</p>
<p><a href=“http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvJiYrRcfQo[/url]”>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvJiYrRcfQo</a></p>
<p>If you have to ask, you should dump her. If you really loved her, your attitude towards this would be more among the lines of: “I really like the situation and am not interested in hooking up; that’ll truly take an exceptional case of convincing.”</p>
<p>I have friends who have happily remained with their HS GFs for years after college and have rock-solid relationships. However, at the same time, they never asked the question about hooking up / dancing with girls at parties. They are simply not interested.</p>
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<p>Eh, well, I wasn’t saying that infidelity could lead to other crimes as well (like murder, theft, etc.), but in and of itself, infidelity does not cause nearly as much harm the aforementioned subjects. </p>
<p>We all see in varying shades of grey.</p>
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<p>Is that seriously your reasoning for why it’s okay to cheat and lie? Because it’s not as bad as murder? Because politicians do it? You need a serious reality check, and I honestly feel sorry that your future spouse has to live with someone with such low morals as yourself.</p>
<p>Cheating is wrong, period. There is no getting around it, and your attempts at doing so (“Well it’s okay because it’s not against the law!” I hope your GF likes that one) just makes you look pathetic and cowardly. </p>
<p>I’m sorry to the others who had to read this outburst, but I really have no respect for scum like this.</p>
<p>people like xx p1ss me off because they pretend they’re some sort of profound intellectual who see things from a different perspective… just stop it, please…</p>
<p>I apologize if I may have breached certain social conventions. I’ll shut up now.</p>
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<p>Low morals? Did you not read the rest of my post? I personally think that cheating is wrong and would never practice it personally, but that it is up to others to decide for themselves whether or not it is wrong or not and assume the consequences of such actions.</p>
<p>Given how heated this argument has become, I will gladly stop writing. I have my beliefs. You have your’s. Let’s leave it at that.</p>
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<p>That’s true. But taking this statement as anything other than a metric of popular opinion is the epitome of an argumentum ad numerum. This is obviously a logical fallacy.</p>
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<p>You obviously believe that. Others do not. I have no problem applying my absolute morality on others (because, of course, I believe it to be absolute).</p>
<p>Your entire point is pathetically absurd. Let me recap:</p>
<p>1) People believe in moral relativism
2) People also have different morals
3) Ergo, there is no “right” or “wrong”</p>
<p>Gosh, I am so stupid. How did I not see the logic of this line of reasoning long ago?</p>
<p>OH god no I agreed with a post of Baelor’s the world is going to end…</p>
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