<p>I’m sure Dufusmom is wondering what the heck happened to the thread ;)</p>
<p>(Sorry D.M., but we all just get carried away like this. Happens all the time)</p>
<p>Still hoping that you are pondering over the situation. Don’t do anything rash; but don’t do nothing either. You did mention that something else happened recently with other team-members, that was more serious, and they got off with no consequences? Strict standards are fine with me, but double standards make me ill. Is this something you can enquire about? Also, does the coach have a handbook, or set of written expectations/consequences that you can refer to?</p>