<p>I am confusing on whether I should allow my child to get a boyfriend/girlfriend or not?!! Its so afraid to give them too much freedom, because it might make them out of control and to renounce their studies!! On the other hand, I’m so afraid that they would have sexual intercourse and make many problems that they could not handle by themselves, and it might influence their whole life… (PS. My child are both 18)</p>
<p>What is your opinion?! Would you let your child to get a bf/gf?
And what the problem is?! Or how to solve those problem?!
Thank you very much…!!</p>
<p>wow queenieloo, seriously?</p>
<p>I d say let your child be, let him/her experience. You won’t be there next to him looking over his shoulder and make sure he makes the “right decisions” according to you.</p>
<p>Let him live, screw it up, not screw it up, find his way, experience, fall inlove, have a broken heart, have as much sex as he wants, or none.</p>
<p>Your kid is no longer a kid, is an adult and you would make him a big favor if you back off and let him be. It is very important at this point to make him take responsability of his actions</p>
<p>that is just ridiculous, especially if you’re child is 18. just make sure they know how to protect themselves from diseases and unwanted pregnancy, and after that it’s up to your child.</p>
<p>I’m just a little curious.</p>
<p>Why did you ask this question in this section (college essays) of the forum?</p>
<p>Thanks for all of your suggestion, it is very useful! I know what I should do now! thankyou very much!!</p>