Did extensive research a couple of years ago. Price, convenience, repair histories (from Consumer reports in the library) etc, considered. Chose an LG, happened to have steam. Reliability of LG brand has improved a lot in recent years.
Definitely want he. Want a washer which determines the water requirements instead of just s-m-l.
Because of the reported odor/mold issues of the past I seriously considered top loaders. However, even for a tall person it is a long reach to the bottom. I also found articles about how well cleaning of large items occurred- such as a king sized comforter or bedspread. Plus small rugs (bath mats…). The up and down motion of a top loader did not work as well as the round and round of a front loader.
Front loaders add enough water then more gently toss the laundry as it spins- clothes go up then fall to the bottom. You can really put a lot in a front loader without losing cleaning ability. Plus the rinsing still works well.
I discovered that LG and Samsung both have a front little drain tube you can further empty water from. I do this weekly after my last load but not if I do a load more often. More than a couple of cups of water drain. Mine also has a feature where the door can stay minimally open to allow for air drying the inside. I did the maintenance package of cleaner once after a year just 'cause- no need to do it as often as stated by manufacturers. (aside- likewise with dishwashers).
I also paid the extra for the pedestal/storage bottoms. Getting older and worth it to me to not need to lean as much. The con- tops of washer/dryer are less convenient for putting stuff on.
There are many wash cycle choices. I also looked at top spin speeds for brands. And I fiddle with controls- choosing the extra high spin speed. Of course more spin speed means more wrinkles which dry out- be sure to shake out clothes when transferring, btw. I also use less detergent than recommended but often add an extra rinse (softener goes in last rinse) when I have a smaller load and may misjudge the amount of detergent. My washer has a “turbo” feature which sprays clothes but not in towel or bulky mode.
Thought the musical end sounds would annoy me but they are actually pleasant.
I also replaced the dryer. Both appliances were left by the previous owner and I was glad to get back to a front loader. Waited for sales and ended up with steam on both. Steam for the dryer seems more practical than for a washer to me.
Short answer- LG 3470 or current model number, with large (not huge) capacity. Works for two of us- fewer loads if I do less frequently. Also easily does large stuff. Exception- unless you use the huge dryer at a Laundromat mattress pads and other bedding tends to roll on itself and needs repositioning a few times in the matching dryer.