A friend of mine has a daughter who goes to Bryn Mawr in PA. She said it’s VERY LGBTQIA+ friendly and there are a few transgender students on campus. Her daughter loves how close-knit the students are as it’s a small school. My son, cis-gender and gay, only chose colleges that were LGBTQ welcomin, had LGBTQ or gender neutral housing (should the regular dorms not work out,) and were also in towns/cities that were welcoming as well. No place is completely safe, but it was our family’s first priority next to universities that were strong in political science.