<p>ways to end it? according to wikipedia, it typically lasts between 6mos. and 2 years. for me it’s been about five months, so how to end it? any ways?</p>
<p>You always post the strangest things (but strange in a good way). To know when it will end one must know more about the situation…</p>
<p>^ more info: the limerent object is unattainable… eh, besides that just general limerence</p>
<p>Well then my advice is the same as Shamazing’s- just wait it out, get through it until you move on…</p>
<p>are there any alternatives.</p>
<p>Take him (or her?) hostage and force that person to be your love slave…</p>
<p>Well, it means you have a crush on someone. Calling it a fancy word doesn’t turn it into some fancy problem. You have a crush.</p>
<p>You just wait it out like a normal person. Or do something drastically stupid. Whatever floats your boat.</p>
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<p>You’re one to talk.</p>
<p>Was anyone talking to the Canadian? Didn’t think so.</p>
<p>um, no. limerence is very different from a crush, gosh, snoopy.</p>
<p>Hahaha. I’m not sure who to root for.</p>
<p>But, yeah, it’s pretty much a crush, MJ. Sorry. (:</p>
<p>You root for me. I think, because I’m not sure to whom you’re referring. But I’m always the safe bet.</p>
<p>I am leaning towards your side, due to the unresolved “Science vs. Romance” conflict today, but I do think that you need to accept your girly, I-have-a-crush-on-Soccer-Boy side. Mmm hmmm.</p>
<p>I already have. Jeesh.</p>
<p>Jeesh.</p>
<p>So, back to the OP, why do you say that he is unattainable?</p>
<p>Nononono.</p>
<p>This is not acceptance:
[On Joli’s thread] “Did something good happen to me today?”
“Does it have to do with Soccer Boy?”
“Will it make you go Aww?”
“Should I talk about it?”</p>
<p>THIS is acceptance:
[On ANY thread] Today THIS happened. Soccer Boy is GREAT. I don’t need to be forced into talking about my crush, because I accept my girliness and infatuation with Soccer Boy.</p>
<p>Empowering, isn’t it?</p>
<p>They’re always unattainable. That’s the point.</p>
<p>But why is this certain person unattainable? Is he (she?) too hot for you?</p>
<p>Gosh, kikib. You never cease to totally make me laugh.</p>
<p>Semantics, Les.</p>
<p>Just embrace the urge to gush, Snoopy.</p>
<p>Every time I have a Good HD Day, I post about it. It feels good! Just do it! Give in to peer pressure!</p>