Look For The Helpers

Many people are being generous and giving during a trying, crazy time. I’m not even going to use the C or V word. :slight_smile:

Share stories you’ve heard or your own Good Samaritan acts. Let’s keep the focus on positives, please.

I’ll start:

This Brooklyn Landlord Just Canceled Rent for Hundreds of Tenants

Across New York City, landlords have started to panic as well, as it has become clear some tenants are unable to afford rent. Several surveys conducted last month estimated that 40 percent of renters in New York City, if not more, would not make April rent, which was due on Wednesday.

The trickle-down effect could be swift and devastating, according to landlords, leaving them scrambling to find ways to pay their own bills, such as water, sewer and taxes at their buildings.

It is too soon to get an accurate gauge of how many renters withheld their April rent and what the fallout would be for landlords.

But Mr. Salerno said in an interview on Thursday that he did not care about losing his rental income in April, nor did he care to calculate the amount that he would not be collecting from his 80 apartments. He said he had about 200 to 300 tenants in total.

He is likely forgoing hundreds of thousands of dollars in income by canceling April rent.

His only interest, he said, was in alleviating stress for his renters, even those who were still employed and now working from home.

“My concern is everyone’s health,” said Mr. Salerno, 59, whose rent gesture was first reported by the local news site Greenpointers.com. “I told them just to look out for your neighbor and make sure that everyone has food on their table.”

Mr. Salerno said a handful of his tenants messaged him last month saying that they could not afford rent. Three renters from Ireland packed up a few belongings and moved back home, he said.

When Mr. Gentile spotted the sign last week, he said he was surprised but not shocked. For the nearly four years Mr. Gentile has lived in the apartment, Mr. Salerno has been a model landlord.

Emergencies are fixed almost immediately, he said, such as a water leak in Mr. Gentile’s ceiling that was fixed, patched and painted within several hours.

“You don’t see that, especially in a landlord-tenant relationship in New York City,” Mr. Gentile, 28, said. “He’s amazing.”

As New York City started to shut down in mid-March, Mr. Gentile quickly lost his job. He was a lawyer for a personal injury firm who spent most of his time in courthouses, all of which were closed on March 18. There was little work for him outside the courtroom.

The law firm’s partners told him that they hope to rehire him when the economy rebounds, he said. But without a job and rent almost due, Mr. Gentile spent the end of March stressing about using his savings for bills, including what he and his fiancée had reserved for their wedding in November.

“It has alleviated a huge amount of stress that I have been having with the unemployment system in the state,” he said, adding that he had called the New York State Department of Labor roughly 240 times over two days in March to finally connect with a person to file for benefits.

For decades, Mr. Salerno has been a larger-than-life character in his part of Williamsburg, on the other side of the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway from the ritzy high-rises near the East River. During the day, he runs the Salerno Auto Body Shop and gasoline station, which his father opened in 1959.

In the 1980s, Mr. Salerno started to buy vacant lots across Brooklyn to store cars damaged in accidents before they were repaired. In the late 1990s, he started to turn 18 of the lots into apartment buildings.

The repair shop and station are both open, though gasoline sales are down about half from a month ago, he said. He would prefer not to be working on people’s cars during the pandemic, but wanted to be there for his customers.

“Do I really want to do a simple oil change and a brake job?” Mr. Salerno said on the phone at the auto shop on Thursday. “No, but I have a lot of doctors and nurses who need their cars serviced.”

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/03/nyregion/coronavirus-nyc-landlord-mario-salerno.html

College D’s employer is continuing to pay its part-time student workers while their work is suspended. The employer recognized that many of the students were depending on that income to pay their rent and tuition which is still due although students had to leave town. D will get paid for her average number of hours worked per week in Jan.-Feb. from mid March to mid May.

Instead of taking physicians out to dinner for Doctor’s Day last week, H’s employer provided takeout/delivery meals for physicians families from the restaurant of their choice.

We live in a subdivision with a lot of young children. The HOA asked people to put teddy bears in their windows so kids can have a “bear hunt” /count the bears while they are out walking/riding bikes around the neighborhood. That is about all kids can do with schools out, playgounds and gyms closed, sports and lessons cancelled, etc. I thought it was a cute idea. My teenage daughters also decorated our driveway (which unfortunately got washed away in the rain today…)

Some people on NextDoor are making and gifting cloth masks free upon request.

They’re also trying to make 500 masks requested by the hospital Wound Center, for patients and providers.

Yesterday I called to check on a former neighbor who is 83 years old. He is practicing safety but I could tell is not being safe enough. He thinks this will be all over by the end of the month.

I drove to his house and delivered him 10 pairs of single use gloves and a bandana to use as a face mask. I told him he’s on my watch list now.

Two married ladies from my church who are very musical are providing nightly entertainment via Facebook. It’s very fun and up-lifting.

The sewing group at our volunteer club has been making hundreds and hundreds of fabric masks for the past three weeks.

Teddy bear and rainbow hunt alive and well in our neighborhood.

People also leaving hopefully messages and words spelled out in rocks.

Tons of support for local businesses with donations to employee funds.

Local businesses also doing their part to help the homeless (and the city stepping up to get extra shelter beds and meals).

If you have kids who are looking for a way to do something positive for their community consider the “Kindness Rocks” project. The idea is that you paint one or more rocks with a message of kindness or inspiration and leave them for other people to find.
https://www.thekindnessrocksproject.com/

My teen daughter did this yesterday, with messages like “smile”, “Spread love”, “Flatten the curve” and “We’re all in this together”. It’s easy to substitute what you have on hand for the recommended supplies. If you don’t want to place them you can put them outside your door or just take a picture and text it to a friend. Obviously they don’t have to be as professional looking as those in the link.

H’s company is paying employees who usually make scenery for shows etc. to make masks.

A local 12 year old boy (Boston area) started making mask extenders for medical workers using his 3 D printer. He found a pattern online and can make about 20 per day. It allows a protective mask to be held by the back of the head instead of behind the ears as medical professionals were getting sores from the elastic. It also can tighten a mask if it is too loose.

He has received requests for these from as far away as North Carolina. He is packing them in little bags and distributing them for anyone who needs them.

It was on our local news last night. What a great kid!

We’ve had a lot of people in the area (also Boston area) sewing masks and 3D printing face shields. Lots of trading of supplies (plastic soda bottles, elastic, fabric, etc) to help in the effort. We’re also seeing food drives for medical personnel and first responders using local restaurants. It supports both those on the front lines and businesses that are really hurting.

Lots of positive chalk messages on our sidewalks and neighborhood trail.

This one is personal. I hope I don’t get grieve for it.

My 86 year old mom lives about 45 minutes away. I have not seen her for two weeks. Last time I went I brought here some groceries and kept social distance.

Today I went and brought her groceries again. She had told me she was “fine” with food but I know her and while she wouldn’t ask for fresh fruit and veggies she covets them. I filled up her refrigerator and fruit bowl with a wide variety.

I remembered that last time I was there that her hair that is normally kept quite short was getting shaggy. Today I brought my trimming kit, plastic gloves and masks and asked her if she would like me to clean up her hair. Trim the bangs, cut the back and clean up her neck area.

She was SO grateful. When I was getting ready to leave she said, “thank you so much for coming. You made me good about myself again.” <3

Look for the helpers and when you can, BE the helper.

I’ll challenge you to look for the neighbor who might benefit from you leaving a 1/2 loaf of no knead bread or banana bread, or a few pieces of fruit. Who might be so happy if you volunteer to take their trash cans to the street and back at night.

It’s the little things!

Bates, Bowdoin and Colby Colleges we teaming up to make 3D shields for medical personnel in Maine.

https://www.bates.edu/news/2020/04/03/shields-up-bates-helping-to-ease-ppe-shortage/

A friend shared a post from a woman in Illinois who went to HS with us. The woman is a hospital administrator who requested that anyone who needs food please reach out to her. She has plenty to share and will bring it to them and never tell anyone of the request.

I remember her being a nice person all those years ago. Sounds like she still is.

Pretty much every day on a local city FB page I belong to someone is bringing/buying lunch for the ED at our local hospital.

We’ve seen this locally as well, but the pictures they print in our newspaper make me cringe. It’s always a group of 8-10 healthcare workers grouped around the food, waving their “thanks” but none are wearing a mask and they’re all literally touching they’re so close. I know social distancing may not even be possible during procedures, but the pics just give them impression that should a single one of those workers be infected, they’ll all have it within 10 minutes thanks to the free pizza party.

My 2019 graduate still has a job, thanks to his generous employer, even though revenue is down 75%.

My husband’s customers keep buying gift certificates and beer futures for his brewery online.

He donated a few kegs to a local distiller using them to make hand sanitizer for health care providers.

A friend died of this horrible virus on Monday, and a lot of people from his church lined the street outside his widow’s house (2 meters apart!) and sang.

Still crying.

If you want to buy a delivered meal from a local restaurant to feed a hospital worker in major cities across the country pm me. I don’t think I’m allowed to post the link to it here.

It’s through a company with a marketplace platform for business to business catering - think Grub Hubish. They just started this a few days ago after Lizzo used them to get meals delivered to hospital workers all over the country.

https://www.billboard.com/articles/news/9347485/lizzo-donates-meals-us-hospitals

It’s a small thing, but some kids in my neighborhood have been making chalk drawings with pictures and captions like “wash your hands,” “be kind,” “we’re all in this together,” “this too will pass,” and my personal favorite “it’s ok if you ate all your snacks.” Warms my heart on my daily walk!

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Houston Astros pitcher Justin Verlander and wife Kate Upton announced on Instagram that they will be donating Verlander’s weekly MLB paychecks to coronavirus charities.

“@kateupton and I have decided to donate those funds to a different organization each week so that we can support their efforts and highlight the great work they’re doing during the COVID-19 crisis,” Verlander’s post read.

Thank you, doschicos, for starting this wonderful thread.

I want to let people know about a really wonderful charity set up to help health care workers, restaurant owners and workers, and musicians in New Orleans. New Orleans is really hurting right now, with the highest per capita death rate from coronavirus in the US (even higher than NYC). In addition, with restaurants only open for carry out, many may not survive. Musicians are also hurting right now—with all music venues closed down, NOLA’s professional musicians and others dependent on the arts scene are out of work.

This charity, started by the Krewe of Red Beans, called “feed the frontline” is helping health care workers, local restaurants, and NOLA’s musicians by providing free meals to front-line health care workers and hiring out of work musicians to deliver them.
You can read about it in this article “On one day last week, a team of New Orleans musicians shuttled 1,052 freshly-made meals to staff at local hospitals, while a circuit of restaurants that prepared those meals together rang up nearly $5,000 in sales.” https://www.nola.com/news/coronavirus/article_e3f57990-6d63-11ea-947a-f32e5540c6dd.html

My son is a professional musician in New Orleans (currently not working, like everyone else), and while we can be sure he can pay his rent and have enough to eat, that is sadly not the case for most of the other musicians, artists, and food service workers who make this community so vibrant. For example, we know the photographer mentioned in the article—she is currently earning money doing deliveries for feed-the-frontline.

The charity is registered and is tax deductible. And for those of you who are not itemizing, the CARES act allows a deduction of up to $300 to charity in 2020, even for those who take the standard deduction.