Can I add - and hope I’m not overstepping:
- I understand (maybe) why W&M is dad’s favorite choice. I’m not sure I understand other than loyalty why Gtown is mom’s favorite choice. I don’t know what type of marine bio offerings they have bug guessing not much.
- COA is the daughter’s top choice - and really - other than you’re paying, that’s what matters. COA is unique - it’s small, and you can create your own major - and they do have writing - in addition to majors that probably interest her.
- COA is $60Kish but has merit. With a 3.9-.99 you’d get (per the NPC) $22K off - so you’d be just under $40K. I’m not sure her GPA but they didn’t ask for the test.
So College of Atlantic may meet the budget? Does it still not pass the value test? If not, what is the concern? Is it pre-law? Given they do run potentially an unusual curriculum, you might ask for LS placements. I wouldn’t normally suggest that but if you’re concerned.
At the same time, given the major and difficulty of work, I’m surprised you’d be ok with Gtown at $90K plus vs. $40K. You note if the fit is perfect, you’d pay - but let’s be honest:
- If the student likes COA, then Gtown is unlikely to be for them - and you noted she wants on the smaller side and options in marine science. I can’t find the word marine on their website - maybe I’m wrong. I just don’t see it.
- I remember your son - here’s where he initially applied - almost done with early applications! He has applied to Alabama, ASU, Michigan State, Virginia Tech (ED), UVA, and VCU so far.
You know what I see in #2 - you want inexpensive - and I remember that discussion. So - and maybe I’m wrong - not only do I think Gtown (as an example) isn’t for your daughter based on what you’ve said, but I’ll go so far as to say that deep down, inside, you’d be rooting for a rejection - because it’s going to be hard for a person like you, with your mindset, to stroke that big check each year, without any outcome assurance.
Maybe I’m over stepping and guessing too far - but remembering your posts, I think that.
Now - who like COA, will allow you to build a major or give more flexibility? Open curriculum schools - but they are not safeties short of Kalamazoo. Kalamazoo will hit cost (or about) - not sure they have enough marine stuff. I put a link to their fish ecology lab below. But the K Plan gives you the chance to take the classes you want plus adds in study abroad and more - where marine science things can happen. Rollins has some full ride scholarships - your daughter may not be as far off as you think. Stetson - with a 3.9 and 1400 gets you to about 52K.
What I like about these schools for your daughter - they’re small - and not robustly urban (although Rollins is a bit more). College of Atlantic is - out there.
St. Marys MD is only 1600 kids so small (not COA small), has a marine science program. It’s very near, pretty much on, the Chesapeake Bay. See pic below. While the curriculum may not be open, you can - At St. Mary’s College, students who are interested in more than one subject can create a student-designed major (SDM). This lets them mix classes from different areas to focus on a topic they care about. It’s a way to go deep into a subject while also learning from different points of view.
It has direct costs of $49,123. but you will likely get between $6K and $18K in scholarships.
My point is:
- I’m not sure a Gtown (I won’t speculate on others) meet her need (mom’s but not hers)
- I’m pretty sure you’d have a heart attack paying $90K plus a year - and you know, no school is the perfect fit…..none, zero, zilch.
- If you can’t buy into COA, there are others - maybe not as unique - but sharing some of the same features that are well respected.
Frankly, while you have GT as a top school on the list, I’m guessing there are others - like St. Mary’s - that put them up side to side after a visit, that the student likely, in a head to head, pick others vs. a GT.
Just some - and obviously I’m not you - but from the outside looking in - some thoughts.

