Lost with what to do with my life...

Hey everyone,

[short story]
I’ve changed my major 3 times, not very happy with my current (computer science) even though I like programming. However, I’m sticking with my major. But, I really enjoy mentoring and tutoring. I’d like to use programming to be able to help reach out to people who need help with either. Do you have any suggestions?

[long story]
I’ve been here quite awhile. When I returned to school (I’m 28), I went back for accounting – even though I always wanted to be a teacher/professor. I did this because, for me, I felt like accounting was doable (whereas getting a Ph.D. didn’t seem like a great idea at the time) and a decent way to make a living (and teachers in the states aren’t necessarily making bank).

Professors in my math courses influenced me to try out engineering, and I found that I didn’t really enjoy physics. But I realized I liked math and was good at it. I also found that I enjoyed tutoring students in my classes, in fact, a professor even recommended students to come talk to me if they needed help. Another suggested I lead study groups, etc.

I began to believe in my abilities a bit more and felt like I wanted to work in aerospace. I began researching the best way to do this and discovered upon computer science. I’ve now taken up through data structures and discrete math 2 (weed out courses at my school). I also began participating in a community of teenagers and advising them on education and careers paths based on what I’ve learned. Many of them have been grateful.

Anyways, I’ve discovered that I like programming, but I don’t really like computer science. That said, I’m going to stick with it because I can’t afford to change majors to something else. My problem is through this journey I’ve realized that my strengths and passions really lie in teaching, mentoring, and tutoring. I plan on sticking with CS, but how can I use my chosen major to help others?

I’ve been really thinking about this a lot lately. I’d like to design something to help people with either mentoring or tutoring or both. I know this is kind of ironic, posting here. But I feel like I won’t be happy if I settle for anything else, which I think is what I’ve done the past 3 years of college.

Any help/advice would be awesome.

To teach people you don’t have to be a full time teacher. You can tutor, mentor, be a part time faculty at a college. You are only 28, finish what you are doing, work for couple of years, save money and then reevaluate your life. You can go back to college for further education and become a full time teacher.