<p>You can not change from dependent to independent - you must qualify for that status based on the FAFSA rules. You can not simply declare it. To qualify as independent you must be either 24 years old, married, ex-military, or have your own child. It doesn’t matter if your parent claims you on their tax forms or not, that has absolutely no bearing on it. </p>
<p>It may be that the FAFSA forms were filled out incorrectly or that your parent didn’t qualify for many deductions on her tax forms in the first place and thus her income looked high even though her gross is a modest 50K. But assuming the forms were filled out correctly, you need to face the facts that you got what you got in terms of scholarships and grants.</p>
<p>First question to ask is what was your EFC? It should have said it on the FAFSA form when you filled it out (near the end of the process). EFC is only advisory - colleges are not obliged to do much about that number, especially privates. However, the number can help reveal what kind of packages would be reasonable. </p>
<p>Secondly, while your GPA is high, your regular SAT is not big scholarship range. Neither is your ACT score. <em>Some</em> modest grants/scholarships, yes, but not the big ones - half or more of tuition, etc. Had you applied to some 3rd tier colleges that no one has ever heard of you may have gotten more, but no guarantees. </p>
<p>Realize that as I say your SAT and ACT are not big scores I only mean that in the sense of how college admission officials were deciding to give out big money. Your scores as an indication of college and life success are amazing. It is just that you were likely competing for money from kids with 2200+ SATs and 33+ ACTs. There were enough spots for ADMISSION at your colleges with kids having 2000 SATs <em>and</em> 2200+ SATs, but the big money likely went only to the latter group.</p>
<p>Too many families are not aware of how EFCs, Financial Aid and the rest of the system works. Colleges are also being squeezed as their endowments are down by 25% or more in the huge global financial meltdown we are all in. These decimated college endowments are where colleges get the cash to offer out their grants!!! The money isn’t there. </p>
<p>And college tuitions are going up easily 8% per year, often with even bigger jumps (25% one year recently in California’s publics!). Parents and students have not been adjusting for the shock - and colleges don’t want to loose face/reputation so they downplay how they can’t offer as much in grants/scholarships and thus the public is not very well informed. </p>
<p>So what can we help you with now? You are not the first student and family to start looking seriously at Plan B in terms of college options.</p>