<p>What do the fraternity guys look at in potential pledges?</p>
<p>Do they take attractiveness into play? For the fact that the more attractive one is = the more girls that could possibly come to the parties…</p>
<p>Also, what does one usually wear to rush? Do they allow backwards hats?</p>
<p>Don’t wear a backward hat…</p>
<p>This is general apparel advice (follow this and you won’t go wrong):</p>
<p>Wear khaki shorts, flip flops or top siders, and a polo shirt or button down. Don’t wear cargo shorts, don’t wear trendy t’s, don’t wear stuff from Hollister or Abercrombie.</p>
<p>Of course appearance is taken into account, but you don’t have to be some model looking guy to get a bid. What they are more concerned about is how you present yourself and if you fit in well with the other guys. Be yourself, be fun, don’t act like a jerk.</p>
<p>From another website, general advice, some doesn’t apply to Texas because there is no “formal rush week”:</p>
<p>The Ten Commandments of Recruitment</p>
<p>These are ten commandments of Recruitment; ten tips that should make you very successful during this year’s Recruitment. Learn them. Live them. And follow them!</p>
<ol>
<li><p>Rush More than One Chapter
The best strategy for Recruitment is to explore all of your options. By doing that, you’ll ensure that you make the best choice for yourself. Visit all the chapters early in the week, narrow down your choices to the three or four that you like best, then concentrate on them during the rest of Recruitment. Likewise, one of the easiest ways not to get a bid is to Rush only one chapter. Even if you know the chapter plans on giving you a bid, you may not be joining the best chapter for you. You may not know that until after it is too late. Any good fraternity should want you to check out other chapters. If their chapter is so strong, other chapters can only make them look better. And you’ll have more peace of mind that you joined the right fraternity.</p></li>
<li><p>Don’t stereotype the chapters
Don’t be mislead by the size of a house, or where it is on campus. Chapters big and small, on campus or off, have a lot to offer you. It all depends what you are looking for. Larger fraternities may offer you more opportunities as a group, but a smaller chapter may give you more opportunity as an individual. You’ll have more opportunity to be an officer in a smaller chapter, and your influence may be much greater there than in a larger or more established chapter. West Georgia has an excellent variety of small and large chapters. Choose one that fits your style. The chapter you join may not be #1 on campus, but with your leadership and influence, it can get there.</p></li>
<li><p>Ask Intelligent Questions
More importantly, look for intelligent answers. Questions are one of the best ways to show your interest in the chapter, and getting the answers ahead of time will save you any surprises down the road. Can I move into the house? How much are dues? What would be expected of me as a new member? What are your parties like? How long is the pledge program? Can I play intramurals? What is your chapter’s view in hazing? The only bad questions are the ones you don’t ask. Thinking about your questions ahead of time will keep the conversation rolling and show your interest. How can you be sure you’re getting straight answers? Ask the same questions to different people in the house and compare what they say. </p></li>
<li><p>BE CONFIDENT
One of the most important tips during Recruitment is to act confident. No one is truly one hundred percent confident, but the more self-assured you can appear to be, the better.</p></li>
<li><p>Don’t Try To Be Something You Are Not
Pick the chapter that fits your personality. Don’t worry, there is a chapter out there for you.</p></li>
<li><p>Beware of Subtle Clues
Remember that Recruitment is a two-way street. You’re looking for a chapter that fits your style, and they’re looking for members that will fit theirs. If your not getting a warm reception, than don’t waste what little time you have there.</p></li>
<li><p>Don’t be Tied to Your Friends
Without a doubt, this is one of the most tragic mistakes you can make as a Rushee. Joining a fraternity involves the development of total brotherhood, involvement with dozens of other men who share your common interests. Don’t let the future be influenced by one individual. If he’s such a close friend, he’ll still be there if you decide to join another chapter. Every Greek has friends in other chapters. It will build your friendship base even stronger, giving you new friends and acquaintances. </p></li>
<li><p>Meet as Many Guys as You Can
Most chapters extend bids based on a vote of approval. In many chapters, at least 50-75% of the members need to give you the thumbs up in order for you to get a bid. Meet as many guys as you can, and don’t hesitate to ask them to introduce you around. Be assertive and act confidently. Ask to meet the Recruitment chairmen and the officers. If they like you, they can have a lot of influence.</p></li>
<li><p>Be Available During Recruitment
Many chapters will send out flyers, invitations, and bids to you throughout Recruitment week. Be sure that the chapters you like have your phone number and room numbers, and they will be able to reach you. If you need to turn down an invitation to a chapter you really like, be sure to call their Recruitment chairman, thank him, and maybe make plans for a different event. Don’t miss out on an event, or even a bid, because you could not be reached.</p></li>
<li><p>Use Careful Consideration in Accepting a Bid.
Remember that Recruitment is a limited time period. Your fraternity affiliation will last a lifetime. Keeping that in mind, don’t make any rash decisions on accepting a bid. You don’t need to feel pressured to accept a bid the moment it is offered. It won’t be revoked while you check out other chapters. Don’t always accept the first bid you receive. You’ll probably get others, and they are all valid until the end of Recruitment, often times longer. Take your time and make the right choice</p></li>
</ol>
<p>Backwards hats are fine if they are conservative hats to begin with (read: a Polo hat or a plain white baseball cap with “TEXAS” on the front). Fitted hats will get you cut fast regardless of whether they are forwards or backwards, as will flat-bill caps.</p>
<p>Basically it’s knowing guys in the chapter to get in to rush to begin with, or else being a cool enough guy that they start to like you fast. Don’t do anything stupid at their events as well or you will get cut.</p>
<p>Fitted hats will get you cut?
surreal</p>
<p>Aliright, heres what you should do to impress your potential frat buddies:</p>
<ol>
<li>Look Sharp- If you can, try and get a pedicure and manicure a few days before so you will seem well groomed, and do not forget gel whatever you do</li>
<li>Dress Well- Hit up Hollister, Abercrombie, Aeropostale, anything like that (Don’t forget jeans with gaping holes in them and some of those necklaces/bracelets at the front)</li>
<li>Loafers</li>
<li>Have your parents buy a lakehouse, a secondhouse, or a boat, this will help you fit in</li>
<li>More Loafers</li>
<li>Lastly, just be yourself, you only have one chance to make these friendships forever and the sooner you know everyone the sooner you can get to drinking</li>
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<p>Wait – that was a joke, right?</p>
<p>Yes, it is a joke - do not wear gel in your hair, no manis or pedis, do not shop at those stores, do not wear jewelry, etc.</p>
<p>But, the lakehouse part might help 
jk</p>
<ol>
<li>Don’t post on internet message boards looking for advice on how to get in to a fraternity. If they don’t like the way you are now, then you probably shouldn’t rush. If you do they’ll just end up realizing you’re a tool after you’ve already rushed and you’ll have a ****ty greek experience. </li>
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<p>cliff notes: Be yourself or just save yourself the effort.</p>
<p>^ Can I get an Amen?! :)</p>
<p>Pretty funny that you’re stepping into this thread when you’re from Jersey - land of the gel heads and Yager Bombs! ;)</p>
<p>hahah jager bombs! JAGER BOMBS!!! </p>
<p>and we dont nearly sexually harass gel bottles as we used to ;)</p>
<p>Haha! Look up on youtube My New Haircut: the “Ultimate Broski” that’s what I think of when I hear about “Dudes from Jersey!” ;)</p>
<p>Not now chief I’m in the zone!</p>
<p>haha i think everyone in jersey is forced to watch that at the age of 2 and above. you should watch the asian one, its funny too :P</p>