@imstacey first let me say that my kid is generally, and I mean this in the best way, somewhat of an introverted geek. Never had a boy friend, never had a date…etc
My older daughter goes to Clemson and is in the Honors College. Are there lots of preppy frat boys there; of course there are. But she is thriving despite not wanting to be in the Greek life or the party scene which is present in both Clemson and Miami. That type of experience is there for the kids that want it but it does and should not totally define the school.
In fact for those that don’t want the party scene and want a more serious academic experience schools like Miami and Clemson can give them that (especially in honor colleges) with a much more reasonable price tag than the private LAC or the Vandys. Tulanes, Rices etc…
Rest assured in a school of 20K and in especially in the honors colleges of schools like Clemson or Miami. even the serious students, they are going to find their people and get a great and challenging education,
And in honor colleges at places like Miami and Clemson the more serious students are going to thrive despite the college’s reputation for Greek life and parties.