@romanigypsyeyes Post #61 Which state do you live in? Sounds expensive. Did you read my story about my sister’s kids? It seemed pretty easy for them to get the aid they needed at UCONN. And they have very low student loan debt. Your state college must be very different.
You actually made my point. You found the will to find a way by applying for fin aid, outside scholarships, working, and taking out loans. You went through undergrad with more challenges than some, but you did it! More fin aid would have been appropriate, but I still think working PT (not FT), applying for outside scholarships, and taking out a few loans is not an unreasonable expectation of a college kid, including my own.
By the way, Congrats on your PhD! You can’t be that bad off if you are in a PhD program instead of working in a career outside to pay off student loans? Does a grant cover the full costs of your PhD and your living expenses?
Yes, college tuition was less in the old days, But, salaries were also lower. My brothers and I went to college on ROTC scholarships and other outside scholarships that we applied for - even back in those dinosaur days. Then we had to serve in the military after college to pay back our scholarships. My parents had four kids and not that much money, so ROTC seemed the right thing to do.
And I am very current on the high costs of colleges today, having visited about 40 public and private colleges in the past five years with my two boys. Like you, we looked at a lot of options to pay for college. One son took a full-tuition ROTC scholarship and is now serving on a ship in the Navy. We are nicely paying for the other son with savings, and it is a large amount for us relative to our military income. Second son did win a few outside scholarships and he will work PT in college. He seemed to have much cheaper (full-tuition) options in our state than you did.
Lastly, you are correct. No one here is suggesting that private colleges should be free, although some privates are actually already very generous to poor students.
I don’t know you, but I am proud of your work ethic and accomplishments. Congrats again!