I readily admit that I am not an expert in engineering. But I don’t think it’s inappropriate to suggest that OP take a good look at his in-state publics when cost is a factor and some of the options (like the Florida publics) aren’t guarantees for an out-of-state waiver, even though I think it likely for at least some.
Southern Illinois-Carbondale does offer a specialization in aerospace engineering and one of the companies they mention coops with is Boeing. Tuition, room & board runs about $26k here and OP would qualify for the University Excellence scholarship of $5500/year (placing this in budget) and I suspect would be invited to apply for the full ride Chancellor’s scholarship. If cost is an issue, then travel expensees likely need to be considered as well.
So if OP could have looked at the three Illinois publics and decided that SIU-Carbondale was his top choice for an in-state safety. Or maybe he prefers one of the other campuses and it has an aerospace club for engineering students to participate in and decides that’s his preference. Of course, I’m one of those people that likes to investigate all my options before deciding on a path whereas others are overwhelmed by too much choice. But I don’t think a list of approximately 10 programs is too much to suggest.
Also, there are other programs I mentioned that don’t have an aerospace bachelor’s but I think would be a good fit. Florida Polytechnic, for instance, “only” offers ME, but it offers a concentration in aerospace as well: Mechanical Engineering Degree (BS) | Florida Polytechnic University.