Yes this seems like a very personal and campus-specific set of considerations that is only going to be clear from visiting (and sometimes not even then because you may not known exactly where people live off-campus or where the best restaurants are).
For example, I don’t think anyone would argue UCLA isn’t urban, or that it isn’t well integrated with the surrounding community, but it still wouldn’t be particularly convenient (or common) to walk 20 mins down the hill to Westwood for lunch and back again. However going there in the evening is a different matter.