What about Notre Dame? I believe they have ABET-certified CompE, and they are very wealthy and so might get where you need on aid.
WashU is another very wealthy Midwest university with a reasonably popular CompE major, but it is not ABET-certified:
I have seen some people suggest this is not really an issue for CS or CompE, and in fact in this older thread an official from WashU explained why they decided not to seek ABET certification for CS or CompE:
But I have no independent basis for an opinion on that subject.
In the East, along with the usual suspects, you might check out the NPCs at Hopkins and Boston University.