You’re looking for people to say you’ll get into certain colleges. Maybe you will but people are giving you the best guess.
That you go to a decent public hs doesn’t change you have a 3.3 and a solid, but not top level SAT.
You’ve been given a few great ideas just in case.
The opportunities post grad at schools on your list and that were given like U Cincy will likely be similar - I don’t see any on the top of your list any better than those you deem safer. These are all solid names.