I just want to type over here for anyone junior/senior stumbling through my post in the future.
In my experience, this process sucked so much. Not only did I get criticized/belittled by my parents (dad especially) about my stats and college results, I felt like I deserved everything that happened to me. Honestly, I’m writing this on 4/15, and I wasn’t sure where I was going to college before yesterday (I had options, but was happy with none).
All I will say is this: people will say everything to you. They will pull you down, ■■■■ on everything you did, and I know it gets to a point where you think all the work you did was futile (I for sure felt that way). Only YOU know what you went through. YOU did all this work to get to this position.
Honestly, to this day, I don’t think my dad congratulated me on a single school I was accepted to—he would just continue to belittle my achievements.
So to anyone that is experiencing this: I AM PROUD OF YOU. Applying to and attending a college is such a huge deal, and you are doing the right thing!!!
Right now, I plan on transferring to an even better school (mostly out of spite to show my parents wrong).
ok so my results:
VT: Accepted
Villanova: Rejected
Wisconson-Madison: Rejected
Pitt: Accepted
UMD: Rejected
UIUC: Rejected
UF: Rejected
Udel: Accepted+scholorship
Stevens: Accepted+Scholorship+istem program
Rutgers: Waitlisted → Accepted (99% commiting there)
Penn State- Accepted (Got summer start for Econ changed it to Data science (I think?) and got fall admission)
IU: Didn’t get into Kelley and I got an email saying I can’t transfer AO also said the same thing (this one hurt)
Bentley: Accepted + Scholorship
I applied all EA
idk if anyone even is going to see this lol but know that everything will work out. Honestly I was so annoyed when anyone would say this to me because I thought “easy for you to say” but it really does.
Rooting for yall.