That’s what I meant: you stated you were now going to pursue a ME major (and hope to add an aerospace engineering minor, which makes sense). As a result, you’re not constrained by restrictions that bind aerospace-only international students. 
(Whether you’re still interested in aerospace engineering is not the topic here, but rather where you can apply to college.)
All reputable colleges of engineering will have ME.
You need a formal diagnostic if you want accomodations but if you have one, you can contact the office of disability support (it may have various names depending on the college), submit the documentation they request, and receive what has been deemed appropriate accomodations. Colleges may vary in what support they offer.
If you’re admitted to several colleges, you can contact them before you decide to enroll and choose based on those where accomodations fit your needs.
Regardless of what the college offers, attend office hours every week and book tutors (or use the walk-in writing and math centers). It’s not HS: tutors aren’t for failing students (*) but for students who want to turn their B into an A.
(*can be, of course)