<p>*But I’m not going to tell her she has to go to her safety school just because she happened to get sick at an inconvenient time. I don’t want her to miss out on anything just because she has a chronic illness. If there is even a chance that a school will work with us, I’m going to do everything possible to make it happen.</p>
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<p>Nobody is saying that RIGHT NOW, you should tell your D that she may have to go to her safety school. All I said was that make sure that she has a safety school where you’re sure all costs are covered so that you have something to fall back on in case NO OTHER school gives you a workable aid package. </p>
<p>Are you saying that you’re not going to have a safety on her list at all? If so, then you’re deciding to pay whatever a school expects you to pay…gaps and all. I realize that you don’t want to curtail your D’s dreams in response to this diagnosis and expense, because she’s had to absorb so much with this new information. But, you also don’t want to have her enroll in a school and then have to leave because you can’t balance health expenses and school expenses. </p>
<p>We have been working with her college advisor since her freshman year (it’s a requirement at her school) on finding the right school for her and us</p>
<p>Most school college advisors focus on major and fit. They often do NOT **fully **take into acct financial aid. They may know that X school gives out “good” aid, but they may not know that you need to have 100% of your need met so that you can still afford to pay any extra medical costs. </p>
<p>Has your GC explained that most schools will “gap” you? (that means that although you might have $30k in determined need at a school that costs $55k, a school may only give you $13k in aid…leaving you with your $25k EFC to pay **PLUS **another $17k in gap for you to cover.</p>
<p>A school that is known to be generous with aid may cost $55k and typically give $25k per year in aid (a combo of grants, loans, and work-study). That may sound great to a GC, but not so great to a family who can’t pay the remaining $30k - especially if their EFC is only $20k and they can’t also pay for that $10k gap. </p>
<p>Has your GC discussed whether the schools on your list meet 100% of aid? Since you’ve only mentioned FAFSA, it sounds like these school may not meet need. Since Auburn is on the list, we know that school will give little need-based aid to an OOS student. Auburn does give merit scholarships for high stats, but the amounts have decreased in recent years. Do you know if your D qualifies for any of Auburn’s assured merit scholarships?</p>
<p>I understand that you’ve spent 3 years working on this list with a school GC, but if there hasn’t been insufficient attention to whether a school “meets need,” then that may be a problem. Since you didn’t know what CSS Profile was, that suggests that the GC doesn’t really pay a lot of attention to the FA side of college searching. </p>
<p>It sounds like your D goes to a private high school. If so, then there may be an assumption that the family can/will pay whatever a college expects them to pay after submitting FAFSA.</p>
<p>Also, are you aware that most schools will include Work-Study in their financial aid? Will your D be able to work this work-study (usually about 2500 per year)? W-S typically involves that the student work about 8-12 hours per week. If your D’s health won’t allow for that, then you’d have to cover that aid yourself with more money. </p>
<p>Hopefully someone on CC has been in your situation where a chronic disease is diagnosed during senior year. </p>
<p>I agree with Sk8trmom that you don’t have to submit your new med bills in January. You can wait till spring when you have all of the FA offers to see which school will work with you. Then later, when there are more bills 2012, maybe the school will revisit the issue. </p>
<p>I don’t know if a school will do **any projecting from 3-4 months of bills, but maybe they would if you accompanied the bills with a letter from her doctors **confirming that her illness is long-term and the expensive treatments and likely hospitalizations will be on-going. </p>
<p>I understand how shocking all of this is for you. My mom was a wreck after my sister was diagnosed and worried about her constantly. Hoping for the best for you and your D.</p>
<p>**Lastly…and really may be more importantly…**you mention that your D will be hospitalized a few times per year. Since your college list was made prior to the diagnosis, then distance from home may not have been a consideration. Are any of these schools a good distance away from home? When your D is hospitalized, are YOU going to want to rush there to be with her? If so, then distance will be a big concern. Being able to juggle multiple hospital visits while working your job may be an issue if your D is several hours or a plane ride away. My own son was hospitalized as a frosh in college, and thankfully his school was only a 2-3 hours away.</p>