<p>Calmom, I grew up lower middle class.</p>
<p>I ended up in Tiburon…in the flats.
I never fit in Tiburon. :)</p>
<p>I dont think the middle class has an equal chance. Not close either. </p>
<p>People think differently in Tiburon or Mill Valley or Belvedere, etc. compared to people in middle class areas.</p>
<p>I had a friend that grew up upper class in Newport Beach. Whenever there was an issue with his kids , that guy was in the face of whoever he thought could help his kids until he got the result he wanted. In the face… </p>
<p>There is an attitude difference. </p>
<p>I took a class at Sonoma State. The class was about social class in education. Blew my mind. </p>
<p>One anecdote…
The professor who came from a poor background but was now super wealthy told the class that more than half the kids in Tiburon went to private schools.</p>
<p>Living in Tiburon at the time, I said to the professor in front of the whole class, “You are crazy! I live in Tiburon. The public schools are awesome. You are wrong”.</p>
<p>The professor said, no. The public schools arent good enough. School systems are set up to keep the status quo. </p>
<p>I coached so many kids over the years. I was sure I was correct. I went home and grabbed the school directories that have lists of all the students at public schools in Tiburon. I go through the lists. “Where is everybody?”</p>
<p>Most of the kids were at private schools. Even in Tiburon… We had separation of the classes. The wealthy and the upper upper middle class… Were separated. Lol!</p>
<p>Good thing my son was an unbelievable soccer player… Otherwise he wouldn’t have made the team.
I am not kidding. </p>
<p>I told the professor the next day, “You were right”. But not in front of the whole class. In her office. :)</p>
<p>The Outliers by Gladwell deals with education in his book. Hard to finish his books, but he said what I saw and studied about social class and education.</p>
<p>The middle class doesnt know what is out there.</p>
<p>Some middle class people will figure a few things out, but they are outliers.</p>
<p>If my wife did not marry down, I wouldn’t know either. :)</p>