<p>I agree with K9 and sopranodad. There is no sense in agonizing over it. Make your peace and move on. UD was by far the stingiest with DD. However, as she finishes her junior year, she continues to have a wonderful experience at UD and, for us, that’s what counts. BC, perhaps I am reading into your posts something that isn’t there, but it seems that you are not happy with UD already (poor merit money, not good enough class stats, bad dorms, crime). I’m also assuming that you aren’t sharing the negativity with your DD who happily got off the waitlist. 
Best wishes to both of you!</p>