Microaggressions and Victim Culture

The Atlantic has an article about the Rise of Victimhood Culture with a stunning example from Oberlin.

http://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2015/09/the-rise-of-victimhood-culture/404794/

Last fall at Oberlin College, a talk held as part of Latino Heritage Month was scheduled on the same evening that intramural soccer games were held. As a result, soccer players communicated by email about their respective plans. “Hey, that talk looks pretty great,” a white student wrote to a Hispanic student, “but on the off chance you aren’t going or would rather play futbol instead the club team wants to go!!” Unbeknownst to the white student, the Hispanic student was offended by the email.

After initially emailing the student who offended her, she decided to publicly air the encounter that provoked her and their subsequent exchange in the community at large, hoping to provoke sympathy and antagonism toward the emailer by advertising her status as an aggrieved party. She did so in a post to the web site Oberlin Microaggressions, a blog “primarily for students who have been marginalized at Oberlin.” The aggrieved student quoted the aforementioned email: “Hey, that talk looks pretty great, but on the off chance you aren’t going or would rather play futbol instead the club team wants to go!!”

I’m glad I didn’t major in sociology.

Seriously. What a bunch of gobbledygook.

When did simple honesty and understanding about inadvertent offensiveness and an apology go by the wayside as the method of coping with minor poor phrasing?

Oh my…the microagression was the problem here? Not the other party calling the aggressor bi##h? Seriously? I would not want to go to school with such thin skinned victims.

I’m appalled at the vocabulary and grammatical errors perpetrated by students at what purports to be an elite LAC (your/you’re, for all intensive purposes).

Here are some similar articles about a woman claiming victimhood because she is too pretty.

http://thefederalist.com/2015/09/14/dont-love-me-because-im-beautiful/

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/a45917/people-judge-me-because-im-pretty/

She ends the complaint about being stared at by men with a link to follow her in Instagram.

This article hurts my head. I can’t even.

Btw, I love the “don’t use MY language” nonsense. The girl involved does not have a copyright or trademark on Spanish. And spare me the reappropriating cultures - does that mean Latino students should be prevented from studying Shakespeare or acting in Shakespearean plays because that’s white male culture?

The other student was entitled not to want to go to the talk without it being an “example of white male privilege.”

The pendulum has really swung way too far in the other direction.

The aggrieved lacked all grace and honor in her response to the young man. He was a convenient target, and interchangeable with anyone who did not properly meet her standards for being able to interact with her on her approved terms.

If I ever suggest Oberlin for S2, someone please slap me.

Competitively finding ways to be offended is actually not a new or rising thing. It has a long (compared to how long most current college students have been alive) and dishonorable history among far-left activists whose anger seems to have a two position switch (“off” and “maximally outraged”, often stuck at the latter). Being maximally outraged does get media attention that they crave.

However, such constant outrage is like “someone who cried wolf when there was no wolf”, in that other people tend to get trained to ignore things that actually are deserving of outrage. E.g. “microaggressions” are not a non-issue, but the activists’ maximal outrage at even the slightest unintentional perceived (by them) offense tends to drown out any reasonable discussion of it.

Fixed that for you.

It has a long history on all (not just both) sides—it isn’t the province of just one group.

Cis-dude is pretty funny though.

Also funny that futbol is not played aggressively to win, despite the aggressive and winning ways of certain futbol playing Latin American nations.

eyeroll “Victim culture”?

So microaggressions are a real thing. There’s a long history of research on them, and documented evidence in scholarly literature of them and the effects that they have on minorities of all stripes (women, racial/ethnic, people with disabilities, LGBT students; religious minorities, etc.). Asking an Asian American woman where she’s from and being skeptical when she says northern California is a microaggression; telling a female speaker that she’s “way better at math than I expected” with a hint of surprise in the voice is a microaggression; telling a person who uses a wheelchair that you’re so proud of how they get around it’s like they don’t even have a disability is a microaggression.

Simply, a microaggression is an act - usually spoken, but sometimes not - that’s not necessarily ill-intentioned but has the effect of reminding a minority that they are of an “other”, lower status, and/or conveying some sense of role slotting or stereotyping: that Americans can’t be Asian; that women can’t be good at math; that people with disabilities shouldn’t be able to get around well. In fact, microaggressions are sometimes intended as compliments! And usually the speaker didn’t intend to offend, nor are they bad people.

But at the title “victim culture” and their characterization of it, I have to roll my eyes so hard they nearly fall out of my head. Neither Manning nor Campbell is a scholar on microaggressions or identity issues; both of them are researchers in morality and deviance, and Manning in violence and aggression.

I also fail to see their point. They claim that victims of microaggressions, in this case, are advertising a need for sympathy or a plea for help: but I think that’s a fundamental misunderstanding of both this case in particular and reactions to microaggressions writ large. This response by this Hispanic student emanates anger and frustration, but there’s nothing resembling a call for help or a plea for sympathy in the response the student wrote. In fact, most of the responses to microaggressions I’ve seen have actually included a dismissal of any possibility of support or sympathy from the majority party in that case.

Secondly, they claim that “dignity culture” members would not approve of appeals for “minor” offenses. But who gets to determine what is minor and what is major? (I have no feelings on the matter either way, but I’m not Hispanic). There’s an analogy that we use sometimes in discrimination and stigmatization research. If people are stepping on your toes all day - a few people deliberately, but most people by accident, and most without even realizing it - by the time the tenth person stomps on your toe without realizing it you might blow up. It’s not necessarily the best reaction, or the most rational one, but it is a human reaction. Racial/ethnic minorities have to deal with many reminders each day that they are marginalized/other and often lower-status. Other role strains add to that. So perhaps the reaction was disproportionate to this particular slight. But, if the student’s response is any indication, this “minor” insult made a whole bunch of deeper stuff much more salient (perceptions of tokenization, fetishization, suppression of his culture, etc.) In fact, on a normal day this might not even be something that the student would normally react to or interpret as offensive, but something else set him off. Again, not the smartest or best reaction, but a human one.

And, because a person might not see the entire history of a student’s feelings/perceptions of marginalization (sounds like the kid’s father was discouraged from using his native language, for one), to us it may seem “minor” and like he has a “thin skin” and “how will he ever function in the world?” But he IS functioning, and apparently quite well, given that he goes to Oberlin.

The example of the Spaniard is irrelevant. The student is obviously speaking about race and ethnicity at an American college in an American context. (Besides, there are lots of white Hispanics here in the U.S., too. That was obviously not the point of the student’s rant, and I think the example is actually disingenuous.)

Not comparable. Cultural appropriation assumes, by its definition, that the culture being appropriated is an oppressed/marginalized one. Western European/British culture is not marginalized in the U.S. In fact, one could argue that Shakespearean literature (and other white, Western European playwrights and authors) are taught often to the exclusion of the voices of authors and playwrights of other descents.

“Simply, a microaggression is an act - usually spoken, but sometimes not - that’s not necessarily ill-intentioned but has the effect of reminding a minority that they are of an “other”, lower status”

So if I’m chatting with someone and they know I’m from Chicago and I say to them “have you been to Chicago?” that’s a microaggression because for all I know the person has never been on an airplane? Spare me.

“In fact, one could argue that Shakespearean literature (and other white, Western European playwrights and authors) are taught often to the exclusion of the voices of authors and playwrights of other descents.”

So you can’t win. You don’t teach other (non white / European) authors, you’re exclusionary. Teach them, and you’re re appropriating culture.

Anyway, anyone attending an elite college in the U.S. IS extremely privileged. You know who’s oppressed? Girls who get shot for pursuing their education. Girls who are used as sexual slaves. Not girls who are being asked if they’d rather attend a lecture or play soccer.

And people wonder why there is so much self segregation on campuses.

I find the title of this thread a microaggression. Really now, the only people who can complain are those who are grossly oppressed (wounded, sex slaves). The rest are just to suck it up and accept daily abuse 'cause its only words and omissions.

@juillet I wish I could like your post #12 ten times over. It is one of the most helpful explanations I’ve seen on CC in a long time. Thank you for taking the time to post it.

There are thousands of microaggessions toward college students every day. They are a very real occurrence. For every so-called “thin-skinned” recipient out there, perhaps a hundred others just silently shrug them off and go about their daily lives, frustrated and angered that someone with a stupid, thoughtless offhand comment has diminished their humanity (and in so saying, has also diminished their own).

PG, don’t shrug this off. This is not a problem that is overblown. This is all about treating peers with the respect that everyone deserves.

Serious question: Can the holding of “Latino Heritage Month” be considered a microagression?

I’m wondering if the white guy felt marginalized by it. Granted, I understand that white guys are privileged and therefore not allowed to feel marginalized, but some probably do at times anyway.

These “victims” will be the majority in 20-30 years. Will they be ready to play the majority role in time/

Microaggression can easily be defused with a simple comeback. That’s why they are called “micro” Life can be much worse.