<p>The $3,000 on the credit cards probably obscures a lot of spending that they may be able to reduce if they looked at it more closely. Unless, of course, most of it is interest from past spending.</p>
<p>The internet and cell phone costs seem high. The electricity seems really high ($300, not included in the $40 energy cost listed separately). The grocery budget seems much more frugal than the rest of their budget, although if they are eating from restaurants a lot, that may indicate non-frugality.</p>
<p>They apparently did not have medical insurance previously, when one of the kids had an expensive medical condition that they had to pay for. Perhaps they are still skimping on it, despite the ACA making it possible to buy (previously, they were probably unable to buy at any price due to pre-existing conditions).</p>
<p>The $3000 credit card, I think, includes the groceries, clothes, and other stuff. I charge everything I can to my Costco Amex, including my phone bills and auto insurance, and I pay the Amex bill in full. So technically I do not pay $200/month insurance, because that is paid for with my Amex bill. </p>
<p>Going out to eat has nothing to do with “grocery” - it would be a different line item IMO. I bet the grocery bill is hidden in “credit card”. :)</p>
<p>Well, it all evens out since they are spending way too little on health insurance. Credit card must be everything else, clothes come to mind immediately… </p>
<p>Who knows about credit card. No way are they only spending $150 month on groceries. Probably credit card costs include plenty of food costs, and many other things. Perhaps they have a lot of medical debt on the cards, income tax, property tax, it could be anything. I see how this could happen to people. They need to go full Dave Ramsey method if they really are staying awake at night worrying. Give up the house and some other things, as hard as it can be.</p>
<p>They have a 3500 sq. foot house with a pool in Plano valued at $350K. That is not extravagant relative to other houses in Plano, but nevertheless it is more than they can comfortably afford.</p>