<p>Since the kids have dated for 5 years, I sort of suspect that he will be a permanent fixture. He brought up the Mother/Son dance that evening. Yes, it was at the moment of despair, but he mentioned it last week as well. </p>
<p>I really didn’t know his mother well. But I did know her. And yes, in the program she, with my parents, would be honored. And yes, you are right. When the time comes, the idea will come to us.</p>
<p>And I normally would not bring up this question, except that the young man told me (without my asking anything) what he was planning to do when he graduates. And my daughter has begun to talk about diamonds (cushion cut…). So I suspect that we may have a wedding in our future.</p>