<p>@LKei, I wasn’t using that one sentence as an example of you sounding whiny. I was saying your entire response post to poseur, in which you sounded pretty emotional and upset [and somewhat accusatory], makes you sound like the “whiny *****” that you referred to in that sentence.</p>
<p>As for the rest: I think you’re taking poseur’s post a bit too personally. Understandably you were pretty upset about your teacher so anything even slightly questioning your situation would sound like a personal attack, but tbh poseur’s post just sounds like a simple statement of her opinion on identities–no subtle attacks on your character or anything.</p>
<p>Generally, if an explanation/interpretation of all the subtle things that someone said in a simple remark online is >5x longer than the remark itself, you’re reading too much into it.</p>