Its a tough call - and one that my husband and I have discussed doing when our younger son graduates high school in 2022. My parents moved right after I graduated from high school (for financial reasons and my 2 younger sisters were still in high school and middle school). I have to be honest and say that I have not had a connection to where I grew up, since they moved… In fact I probably didnt return to visit until about 8-10 years later and it was with my then boyfriend who eventually became my husband. I had people I could visit and stay with, but it just felt weird since my parents had left. But that’s life, it’s ok, I turned out OK, really. I think that as parents we do such much for our kids and at some point you have to make decisions based on what’s best for YOU now, and the reality is that life throws changes and curveballs and these kiddos need to be flexible and resilient. It’s going to serve them well later when challenging things happen. Good luck with what you decide, but go with what your heart wants and recognize that you child will be ok no matter what.