Thank you so much for this reply.
I so wish our student was having this positive experience at a Big 10. They are very social and it is not happening.Then add the bullying which they won’t report because the oboe world is small and it is not a good mix. And there was serious issues in the jazz studio related to SA and it appears to the students that IU Jacobs is looking the other way.
I think our student is brave to say their truth and consider options that could be healthier for them. Afraid, concerned but determined.