my diagnosis of advanced cancer: how to help my kids

<p>It has been a few days since I looked at our list of names. Who alphabetized us? Thank you!</p>

<p>And Sunshine, we all hope you are looking in on us once in awhile, and that you know how much we all care about you.</p>

<p>Sending warm love on a very cold east coast evening.</p>

<p>well, alphabetizing is indeed handy, but somehow my handle got lost in the process so I am gonna add it back in…</p>

<p>♡ lilmom - California
1214mom - Maryland
17wiley- New Jersey
1ofeach- Massachusetts
2VU0609 - Kentucky
89wahoo
aliceinw - Massachusetts
alwaysinterested - Upstate New York
amandakayak - NJ
anothermom2 - nj
AnotherMom2009
anothermom-w-q So. Cal
anxiousmom1 - California
Bajamm ~ Iowa
Balletmom- Pa
boiledegg- West Coast
Booklady - Pennsylvania
bookmama22- Manhattan and Long Island, NY
Boomer22 - Ohio
Boysx3-Ohio
BUandBC82 - southeast
buenavista - Massachusetts
buffmom- El Paso Texas
BunsenBurner - Washington (WA, not DC)
calgal from No. California
calla1 - CA
camtig - California
Cashel - Illinois
Catbirdy - Massachusetts
ccnewcomer - florida
chemusic-Connecticut
Chocoholic
Churchmuiscimom-Georgia
cincy gal - Ohio
Collegemom2012
Consolation - Maine
cooker - Illinois
cormom15
cormom15 - NYS
coskat - LI NY ((Hugs))
CountingDown - Maryland
CPUscientist3000 - CT/MA
Crizello- Nor California
cupcake
Deb922-Michigan
deega123 - Georgia
DeniseC
Dietz199
dkitty21 - New Jersey
DonnaL - New York City
DougBetsy - Maryland
downtoearth- Ma
Dowzerw-East Coast (Annapolis,Maine,DC,NC)
Dstark- California
Eastcoascrazy Maryland
ECmotherx2
EddieOdessa - Maryland
Ellebud-California
emilybee - NY
EPTR- Massachusetts
esobay - California
Faline2- Shenandoah Valley of Virginia
Fallgirl- Virginia
forcollege - California
Fourkidsmom- Kansas
Garland–New Jersey
Gibson1514-Atlanta
gosmom - California
GRITS80 - New Jersey
hanaviolet - California
HaveHope98
Helpermom - South Carolina
HImom
ignatius - Texas
intparent
Joblue - Maryland
justamom
JustaMom5465 - Connecticut
jym626 - here and there
Kajon - MN
KathieP - Pennsylvania
kelsmom - Michigan
Lafalum84 - Massachusetts
LastMinuteMom196 -Georgia
LINYMOM - Long Island NY
ljrfrm - VA
lotsofquests- Pennsylvania
luvsgelato - WI
LVKris- Nevada
mamita- CA
marigold- Desert southwest
martharap - IA
martina99 - MA
MereMom~Wisconsin
MimK6 – California
mnmomof2 - Minnesota
mom2010grad - South Dakota
Mom24boys - Maryland
momfromme - Maine
mominva - Virginia
Momjr - Maryland
momjr - Maryland
Momlive - South Carolina
Mommusic–Ohio
momof2inma - MA
momof3sons-New York
Momto3kids-Kentucky
moonchild - California
motherbear332 - southeast
Mstee - Minnesota
munchkin - currently in HI but usually from Toronto, Canada
my2sunz
my-3-sons - NH
MyLB - VA
Myturnnow- Fla
nearandfar
nj2011mom Essex County NJ
NJTheatreMom
northernparent - Ontario
nottelling – California
NYMomof2 - New York
Onward- Northern Illinois
our2girls - Missouri
peacefulmom-MA
photomom5 - Georgia
Pizzagirl - Illinois
PlantMom-Florida
platyflaty - California
PRJ - OH
psychmom-- NY
Puzzled88 - California
rcefn - Ohio
readingnow
Reddoor-DC
redglasses - UT
riverrunner- Idaho
RobD-TN
robotbldmom NY
roshke - northeast
RTRMom2 - Michigan
runners2 - VA
runnersmom - New York
sabaray - Virginia
Sally22- GA
SansSerif - Philadelphia PA
Sarafina–NY
Scoutsmom
scualum - CA
SDonCC - New England
siemom - Arizona
slipjig-Pennsylvania
snowball - Georgia
SoozieVT - VT
sopranomom92 - California
southjerseychessmom-NJ
stradmom - Connecticut
Stressed2x - NY
suzy100 - OH
Sybbie719- New York
TaDah - Connecticut
takeitallin - California
tango14 - IL
thatsmyboy- MA
tigerdad14 - CA
TiredofSnow - Western Australia
tptshorty-CA
travelnut-northeast
vballmom Northern California
VeryHappy - Connecticut
Vitrac- New York
Yalemom15- the wild west
yesshecan - Colorado
zipyourlips – WA</p>

<p>I was just trying to be helpful by alphabetizing.
I did not make you disappear churchmusicmom It wasn’t me I swear :slight_smile:
All I did was copy and paste from post# 2778, and I don’t see you there either…
sorry :(</p>

<p>♡ lilmom - California
1214mom - Maryland
17wiley- New Jersey
1ofeach- Massachusetts
2VU0609 - Kentucky
89wahoo
aliceinw - Massachusetts
alwaysinterested - Upstate New York
amandakayak - NJ
anothermom2 - nj
AnotherMom2009
anothermom-w-q So. Cal
anxiousmom1 - California
Bajamm ~ Iowa
Balletmom- Pa
boiledegg- West Coast
Booklady - Pennsylvania
bookmama22- Manhattan and Long Island, NY
Boomer22 - Ohio
Boysx3-Ohio
BUandBC82 - southeast
buenavista - Massachusetts
buffmom- El Paso Texas
BunsenBurner - Washington (WA, not DC)
calgal from No. California
calla1 - CA
camtig - California
Cashel - Illinois
Catbirdy - Massachusetts
ccnewcomer - florida
chemusic-Connecticut
Chocoholic
Churchmuiscimom-Georgia
cincy gal - Ohio
Collegemom2012
Consolation - Maine
cooker - Illinois
cormom15
cormom15 - NYS
coskat - LI NY ((Hugs))
CountingDown - Maryland
CPUscientist3000 - CT/MA
Crizello- Nor California
cupcake
Deb922-Michigan
deega123 - Georgia
DeniseC
Dietz199
dkitty21 - New Jersey
DonnaL - New York City
DougBetsy - Maryland
downtoearth- Ma
Dowzerw-East Coast (Annapolis,Maine,DC,NC)
Dstark- California
Eastcoascrazy Maryland
ECmotherx2
EddieOdessa - Maryland
Ellebud-California
emilybee - NY
EPTR- Massachusetts
esobay - California
Faline2- Shenandoah Valley of Virginia
Fallgirl- Virginia
forcollege - California
Fourkidsmom- Kansas
Garland–New Jersey
Gibson1514-Atlanta
gosmom - California
GRITS80 - New Jersey
hanaviolet - California
HaveHope98
Helpermom - South Carolina
HImom
ignatius - Texas
intparent
Joblue - Maryland
justamom
JustaMom5465 - Connecticut
jym626 - here and there
Kajon - MN
KathieP - Pennsylvania
kelsmom - Michigan
Lafalum84 - Massachusetts
LastMinuteMom196 -Georgia
LINYMOM - Long Island NY
ljrfrm - VA
lotsofquests- Pennsylvania
luvsgelato - WI
LVKris- Nevada
mamita- CA
marigold- Desert southwest
martharap - IA
martina99 - MA
MereMom~Wisconsin
MimK6 – California
mnmomof2 - Minnesota
mom2010grad - South Dakota
Mom24boys - Maryland
momfromme - Maine
mominva - Virginia
Momjr - Maryland
momjr - Maryland
Momlive - South Carolina
Mommusic–Ohio
momof2inma - MA
momof3sons-New York
Momto3kids-Kentucky
moonchild - California
motherbear332 - southeast
Mstee - Minnesota
munchkin - currently in HI but usually from Toronto, Canada
my2sunz
my-3-sons - NH
MyLB - VA
Myturnnow- Fla
nearandfar
nj2011mom Essex County NJ
NJTheatreMom
northernparent - Ontario
nottelling – California
NYMomof2 - New York
Onward- Northern Illinois
our2girls - Missouri
peacefulmom-MA
photomom5 - Georgia
Pizzagirl - Illinois
PlantMom-Florida
platyflaty - California
PRJ - OH
psychmom-- NY
Puzzled88 - California
rcefn - Ohio
readingnow
Reddoor-DC
redglasses - UT
riverrunner- Idaho
RobD-TN
robotbldmom NY
RomaniGypsyEyes- Michigan
roshke - northeast
RTRMom2 - Michigan
runners2 - VA
runnersmom - New York
sabaray - Virginia
Sally22- GA
SansSerif - Philadelphia PA
Sarafina–NY
Scoutsmom
scualum - CA
SDonCC - New England
siemom - Arizona
slipjig-Pennsylvania
snowball - Georgia
SoozieVT - VT
sopranomom92 - California
southjerseychessmom-NJ
stradmom - Connecticut
Stressed2x - NY
suzy100 - OH
Sybbie719- New York
TaDah - Connecticut
takeitallin - California
tango14 - IL
thatsmyboy- MA
tigerdad14 - CA
TiredofSnow - Western Australia
tptshorty-CA
travelnut-northeast
vballmom Northern California
VeryHappy - Connecticut
Vitrac- New York
Yalemom15- the wild west
yesshecan - Colorado
zipyourlips – WA</p>

<p>Been following for quite a while but haven’t posted. Thinking of you, Sunrise.</p>

<p>Pls add me, Long Island</p>

<p>and me in Texas. Sunrise, I think of you every day.</p>

<p>It’s no big deal. I just noticed that I mis-spelled my own screen name, so it’s quite possible I messed up trying to add myself way back there. :)</p>

<p>Sunrise, we are all gathered round being silly and wishing the best for you. And praying.</p>

<p>♡ lilmom - California
1214mom - Maryland
17wiley- New Jersey
1ofeach- Massachusetts
2VU0609 - Kentucky
89wahoo
aliceinw - Massachusetts
alwaysinterested - Upstate New York
amandakayak - NJ
anothermom2 - nj
AnotherMom2009
anothermom-w-q So. Cal
anxiousmom1 - California
Bajamm ~ Iowa
Balletmom- Pa
boiledegg- West Coast
Booklady - Pennsylvania
bookmama22- Manhattan and Long Island, NY
Boomer22 - Ohio
Boysx3-Ohio
BUandBC82 - southeast
buenavista - Massachusetts
buffmom- El Paso Texas
BunsenBurner - Washington (WA, not DC)
calgal from No. California
calla1 - CA
camtig - California
Cashel - Illinois
Catbirdy - Massachusetts
ccnewcomer - florida
chemusic-Connecticut
Chocoholic
Churchmusicmom-Georgia
cincy gal - Ohio
Collegemom2012
Consolation - Maine
cooker - Illinois
cormom15
cormom15 - NYS
coskat - LI NY ((Hugs))
CountingDown - Maryland
CPUscientist3000 - CT/MA
Crizello- Nor California
cupcake
Deb922-Michigan
deega123 - Georgia
DeniseC
Dietz199
dkitty21 - New Jersey
DonnaL - New York City
DougBetsy - Maryland
downtoearth- Ma
Dowzerw-East Coast (Annapolis,Maine,DC,NC)
Dstark- California
Eastcoascrazy Maryland
ECmotherx2
EddieOdessa - Maryland
Ellebud-California
emilybee - NY
EPTR- Massachusetts
esobay - California
Faline2- Shenandoah Valley of Virginia
Fallgirl- Virginia
forcollege - California
Fourkidsmom- Kansas
Garland–New Jersey
Gibson1514-Atlanta
gosmom - California
GRITS80 - New Jersey
hanaviolet - California
HaveHope98
Helpermom - South Carolina
HImom
ignatius - Texas
intparent
Joblue - Maryland
justamom
JustaMom5465 - Connecticut
jym626 - here and there
Kajon - MN
KathieP - Pennsylvania
kelsmom - Michigan
Lafalum84 - Massachusetts
LastMinuteMom196 -Georgia
LINYMOM - Long Island NY
ljrfrm - VA
lotsofquests- Pennsylvania
luvsgelato - WI
LVKris- Nevada
mamita- CA
marigold- Desert southwest
martharap - IA
martina99 - MA
MereMom~Wisconsin
MimK6 – California
missypie - Texas
mnmomof2 - Minnesota
mom2010grad - South Dakota
Mom24boys - Maryland
momfromme - Maine
mominva - Virginia
Momjr - Maryland
momjr - Maryland
Momlive - South Carolina
Mommusic–Ohio
momof2inma - MA
momof3sons-New York
Momto3kids-Kentucky
moonchild - California
motherbear332 - southeast
Mstee - Minnesota
munchkin - currently in HI but usually from Toronto, Canada
my2sunz
my-3-sons - NH
MyLB - VA
Myturnnow- Fla
nearandfar
nj2011mom Essex County NJ
NJTheatreMom
northernparent - Ontario
nottelling – California
NYMomof2 - New York
Onward- Northern Illinois
our2girls - Missouri
peacefulmom-MA
photomom5 - Georgia
Pizzagirl - Illinois
PlantMom-Florida
platyflaty - California
PRJ - OH
psychmom - NY
Puzzled88 - California
rcefn - Ohio
readingnow
Reddoor-DC
redglasses - UT
riverrunner- Idaho
RobD-TN
robotbldmom NY
roshke - northeast
RTRMom2 - Michigan
runners2 - VA
runnersmom - New York
sabaray - Virginia
Sally22- GA
san-dee - LI, NY
SansSerif - Philadelphia PA
Sarafina–NY
Scoutsmom
scualum - CA
SDonCC - New England
siemom - Arizona
slipjig-Pennsylvania
snowball - Georgia
SoozieVT - VT
sopranomom92 - California
southjerseychessmom-NJ
stradmom - Connecticut
Stressed2x - NY
suzy100 - OH
Sybbie719- New York
TaDah - Connecticut
takeitallin - California
tango14 - IL
thatsmyboy- MA
tigerdad14 - CA
TiredofSnow - Western Australia
tptshorty-CA
travelnut-northeast
vballmom Northern California
VeryHappy - Connecticut
Vitrac- New York
Yalemom15- the wild west
yesshecan - Colorado
zipyourlips – WA</p>

<p>Is it just me or did anyone else get a warm & fuzzy feeling while once again looking at the long list of well-wishers that has accumulated? This is like one giant, universal embrace that I hope Sunrise can feel …</p>

<p>A wonderful warm hug from moms across the United States…hoping and praying sunrise feels our love and support.</p>

<p>Isn’t there someone here who is in touch with Sunrise IRL? I wonder if they can pass along good wishes and positive thoughts even if Sunrise is not checking in these days.</p>

<p>Please add me -</p>

<p>in Charlotte!</p>

<p>Warm hugs!</p>

<p>♡ lilmom - California
1214mom - Maryland
17wiley- New Jersey
1ofeach- Massachusetts
2VU0609 - Kentucky
89wahoo
aliceinw - Massachusetts
alwaysinterested - Upstate New York
amandakayak - NJ
anothermom2 - nj
AnotherMom2009
anothermom-w-q So. Cal
anxiousmom1 - California
Bajamm ~ Iowa
Balletmom- Pa
boiledegg- West Coast
Booklady - Pennsylvania
bookmama22- Manhattan and Long Island, NY
Boomer22 - Ohio
Boysx3-Ohio
BUandBC82 - southeast
buenavista - Massachusetts
buffmom- El Paso Texas
BunsenBurner - Washington (WA, not DC)
calgal from No. California
calla1 - CA
camtig - California
Cashel - Illinois
Catbirdy - Massachusetts
ccnewcomer - florida
Charlottemom - Charlotte, NC
chemusic-Connecticut
Chocoholic
Churchmusicmom-Georgia
cincy gal - Ohio
Collegemom2012
Consolation - Maine
cooker - Illinois
cormom15
cormom15 - NYS
coskat - LI NY ((Hugs))
CountingDown - Maryland
CPUscientist3000 - CT/MA
Crizello- Nor California
cupcake
Deb922-Michigan
deega123 - Georgia
DeniseC
Dietz199
dkitty21 - New Jersey
DonnaL - New York City
DougBetsy - Maryland
downtoearth- Ma
Dowzerw-East Coast (Annapolis,Maine,DC,NC)
Dstark- California
Eastcoascrazy Maryland
ECmotherx2
EddieOdessa - Maryland
Ellebud-California
emilybee - NY
EPTR- Massachusetts
esobay - California
Faline2- Shenandoah Valley of Virginia
Fallgirl- Virginia
forcollege - California
Fourkidsmom- Kansas
Garland–New Jersey
Gibson1514-Atlanta
gosmom - California
GRITS80 - New Jersey
hanaviolet - California
HaveHope98
Helpermom - South Carolina
HImom
ignatius - Texas
intparent
Joblue - Maryland
justamom
JustaMom5465 - Connecticut
jym626 - here and there
Kajon - MN
KathieP - Pennsylvania
kelsmom - Michigan
Lafalum84 - Massachusetts
LastMinuteMom196 -Georgia
LINYMOM - Long Island NY
ljrfrm - VA
lotsofquests- Pennsylvania
luvsgelato - WI
LVKris- Nevada
mamita- CA
marigold- Desert southwest
martharap - IA
martina99 - MA
MereMom~Wisconsin
MimK6 – California
missypie - Texas
mnmomof2 - Minnesota
mom2010grad - South Dakota
Mom24boys - Maryland
momfromme - Maine
mominva - Virginia
Momjr - Maryland
momjr - Maryland
Momlive - South Carolina
Mommusic–Ohio
momof2inma - MA
momof3sons-New York
Momto3kids-Kentucky
moonchild - California
motherbear332 - southeast
Mstee - Minnesota
munchkin - currently in HI but usually from Toronto, Canada
my2sunz
my-3-sons - NH
MyLB - VA
Myturnnow- Fla
nearandfar
nj2011mom Essex County NJ
NJTheatreMom
northernparent - Ontario
nottelling – California
NYMomof2 - New York
Onward- Northern Illinois
our2girls - Missouri
peacefulmom-MA
photomom5 - Georgia
Pizzagirl - Illinois
PlantMom-Florida
platyflaty - California
PRJ - OH
psychmom - NY
Puzzled88 - California
rcefn - Ohio
readingnow
Reddoor-DC
redglasses - UT
riverrunner- Idaho
RobD-TN
robotbldmom NY
roshke - northeast
RTRMom2 - Michigan
runners2 - VA
runnersmom - New York
sabaray - Virginia
Sally22- GA
san-dee - LI, NY
SansSerif - Philadelphia PA
Sarafina–NY
Scoutsmom
scualum - CA
SDonCC - New England
siemom - Arizona
slipjig-Pennsylvania
snowball - Georgia
SoozieVT - VT
sopranomom92 - California
southjerseychessmom-NJ
stradmom - Connecticut
Stressed2x - NY
suzy100 - OH
Sybbie719- New York
TaDah - Connecticut
takeitallin - California
tango14 - IL
thatsmyboy- MA
tigerdad14 - CA
TiredofSnow - Western Australia
tptshorty-CA
travelnut-northeast
vballmom Northern California
VeryHappy - Connecticut
Vitrac- New York
Yalemom15- the wild west
yesshecan - Colorado
zipyourlips – WA</p>

<p>Sunrise, I hope this post finds you warm and comfortable.</p>

<p>Sunrise…hope you can feel the love and care coming from your cc circle…</p>

<p>Imagine if that list was a list of meal makers for Sunrise! We could cover a whole year! I would make my famous Chicken Tortellini soup with fresh bread and a nice salad. </p>

<p>In the absence of cooking, I am praying for you, Sunrise.</p>

<p>sunrise, I miss you. I hope you and your husband are doing well.</p>

<p>I echo the above!</p>

<p>Sunrise, I hope you can feel the collective warm hugs from the CC community with whom you have shared your journey. </p>

<p>To all the caring members, I hope you feel better knowing that Sunrise seems to be checking in on CC and I assume is seeing these messages. </p>

<p>Sunrise, I know how much everyone would love if you peeked in and gave a thumbs up and we don’t expect you to use a lot of energy to write a detailed post. Please know that there are a lot of caring people here who would love to hear from you if you can.</p>

<p>The main thing is that there is a community that has come together to care about you and hopefully that positive energy is helping you through these times. Be well.</p>

<p>^^^ Well said and thank you for the news that Sunrise is checking in. </p>

<p>We are here for you, sunrise!</p>