You are a rising junior. At this point, just make sure you are taking the required courses for high school graduation in your state. You want to take four years each of English, Math, Science, Social Studies, and up to at least level three of a foreign language. You should also take one arts course.
For the time being…stop talking about colleges with your parents. You need a break from this. And really, you don’t need to make any decisions soon anyway. So…research colleges, and see what you can find that will be affordable, and where you can get accepted.