Need advices

<p>I’ve just read this in Bates College website:
Be careful of the obvious. For instance, “How my trip to France taught me independence” is a bit too easy. But, if reflective, anything - travel, a significant personal struggle, a family experience - can be an impressive subject.
What kind of “reflective”? If not “independence”, then what else work? Really appreciate your answer!</p>

<p>I think the better question is What is “reflective”? :P</p>