I know it isn’t on your list, but based off of your criteria, it seems that CCM Drama would be a great fit for you!
We have a couple older people in every year of classes. The faculty LOVES bringing in people with life experience. Small class sizes 10-15 people per class. An emphasis on film acting as well as theatre acting (We do a departmental film and a 48 hour film festival every year as well as extensive work with the EMedia department on Student Films in addition to our mainstage and studio plays) and we are in a City that provides us with chances for professional work and opportunities to join SAG-Aftra and work towards an Equity card while in school.
If you apply for the Cincinnatus scholarship, I am sure with your grades, you will get a sizable amount from the school.
Check out the website!
http://ccm.uc.edu/theatre/drama.html
Watch the video, look at what some of the alumni are doing (lots of TV/Film), read about the curriculum, and if you have any questions about the program don’t hesitate to private me or post on this page and I’ll be happy to answer them.
Good luck!
Josh