For what its worth @mimmiloveartsy65 you might want to consider Stanford. Academically I think your stats put you in the mix and your violin provide a unique perspective which Stanford values highly. I’m a Stanford alum but to be honest I don’t know a whole lot about the music school. What I can say is that the university has made a concerted effort to expand our presence and offerings in the Arts and have recently started a Stanford Arts initiative including new state of the art facilities.
Academically Stanford’s reputation is well known and we’ve got a fantastic international relations programs. I’m dating myself, but I went to school with Cory Booker US Senator from New Jersey and he was a double major International Relations and Public Policy.
I was an athlete at Stanford but I know we’ve got a well respected orchestra that included music majors and non-music majors. There’s instruction to be had and performance opportunities on campus and in the Bay Area. While there are lots of required courses for freshman and sophomores, electives of any kind are encouraged and I’m sure they’d be happy to structure a program that meets your academic and music pursuits.