<p>While I disagree on some points in your first paragraph, I do agree that it’s possible to have several very good fits, maybe a couple of best fits where boarding school is concerned. </p>
<p>As to your cinematic blasphemy… I also agree that there is more than one soul mate per person. Even though I’ve been married to the same woman for 27 years (and a saintly creature she is to put up with me), I’m sure she could drum up another man to love. It used to be Liam Neeson and then Daniel Day-Lewis (The Last of the Mohicans). If only I could work up the nerve to jump off a waterfall…</p>