What I’ve heard from my kids and other parents, it’s difficult for non Greek/non athletes to get into parties (my daughters went to Rutgers, UDel and Clemson). That’s pretty much it, there’s still a lot going on, and once they turn 21 parties aren’t as popular. I know the business fraternity at Clemson isn’t an easy admit (my daughter chose not to get involved, she’s in a sorority and has a lot of activities).