<p>It doesn’t hurt to apply to a college if there is the possibility you can afford it, and your D understands up front that cost considerations will be a factor in the final choice. I agree with the idea of keeping possibilities open, but also that the student understands that a college may be too costly in the end. </p>
<p>Part of what your D is experiencing is the “talk” between students during this time. Of course, they can apply anywhere but what they choose when the actual costs and acceptances are in front of them might be different. </p>