Are you asking if the med schools view UCSB’s social reputation as a negative or that your daughter won’t be as academically focused because she will be partying?
She may live in the UCI dorms her freshman year but would you pay for her to rent an apartment the next three years or would she be commuting from home?
What would you pay for NEU and UW? To answer your last question, personally, I would choose in state tuition and a UC education over OOS tuition at UW.