I just want to throw out my thoughts on a couple
Of your UMass Cons. Have you visited? Difficult in these times to get a good feel for the campus/area during these times even with a visit…
There are about 25% out of state so definitely a sizable chunk of the student body is non-MA residents. Very friendly upbeat vibe on campus.
Also, the school most definitely does not lean conservative, quite the opposite. The Greek system is not very prominent especially as compared to many flagship state schools.
Best of luck with your choices!