Back to the OPs question.
If affordable I’d let your child choose. H and I sacrificed new cars, big vacations, and things along those lines so we could send our kids full pay to the colleges of their choices. It wasn’t a matter of seeking out the most prestigious school they could get into, but rather it was about allowing each child to attend the colleges that seemed like the best fit. Both of my kids were transformed in the best way possible during their four years at college and we’d do it again in a heartbeat. But it is a personal decision. I will add that ND is a special place in our household – H went there and S got a MS there.
If possible you can always re-visit the top choices before making a decision.
Congrats on the wonderful options.