Hi folks, it’s time for another “is this crazy?” discussion, wherein I attempt to schlepp to the wintriest parts of our country in mid-February in an effort to help S25 discern where he lands. Follow along!
This time I’m looking very specifically for travel intel (restaurants, hotels, AirBnBs, warnings about where the roads are way worse than I might imagine, etc.) Also would love to hear any of your experiences visiting these schools – places we should definitely make time to check out, etc.
The itinerary is a bit in flux but I don’t think we’re going to eliminate any schools from this list (the one that’s farthest away actually feels extra important to visit.) I promise to share our impressions both here and in the thread about colleges that went up/down on our lists.
Draft plan:
- Saturday, February 15: fly to Pittburgh. Overnight there.
- Sunday, 2/16: explore city and take my very old uncle out for lunch/dinner if he’s sufficiently mobile.
- Monday, 2/17: admitted students engineering thing at Pitt. Drive to Cleveland. Overnight near CWRU.
- Tuesday, 2/18: visit CWRU (including engineering student tour). Drive to Rochester. Overnight in Rochester
- Wednesday, 2/19: visit University of Rochester. Drive to Albany area. Overnight where? (would love recommendations. Need to see both RPI and Union Colleges.)
- Thursday, 2/20: visit Union and RPI (or just Union, because they have special admitted students tour we could do that sits right in the middle of the day).
- Friday, 2/21: either a) drive from Albany area to Easton, PA. Afternoon tour of Lafayette or b) do AM tour of RPI and THEN drive to Easton, PA. Overnight in Easton, PA either way (recommendations?)
- Saturday, 2/22: S25 turns 18. We either head straight to Newark and fly home (so he can celebrate with friends in California) or visit Lafayette that morning and THEN fly home…or try to help him meet up with his friends in NYC for the night and fly home on Sunday, 2/23 (which I guess we could maybe swing if he’s super keen. But I sort of wanted to give us a buffer before he heads back to school on 2/24. S25’s views on this will likely be dispositive.)
Questions I anticipate:
- Has he been accepted to all these schools? No. He’s currently in at Union and Pitt and waiting to hear from the rest. We should hear from RPI before we travel. CWRU deferred him in EA cycle and we’ve shown zero interest so visiting seems prudent. U Rochester and Lafayette are likewise regular admissions cycle and seem to care about interest. I figured once we were in this part of the country, probably easier to just see them all.
- Where else is he looking? He’s likely to be choosing from among a really wide range of geographies and school genres (big state schools with engineering that might be kind of overwhelming but have all the things, smaller engineering-focused schools with wonky gender ratios that might be kind of intense but might also end up being like Hogwarts for STEM nerds, LACs with engineering that probably don’t have quite the brand reputation or research opportunities that the rest of the schools offer but in exchange have on-campus housing, close-knit student culture, etc…and maybe, if he’s lucky to get in, smaller R1 universities that might be the Goldilocks solution.) Currently in at St. Olaf, Macalester (both of which are probably sadly coming off the list due to lack of engineering and his recent conviction that he’d rather do that then physics), U Minnesota, CO School of Mines, Oregon State, Pitt, and Union. Waiting to hear from Boulder, Purdue, UW-Seattle, a bunch of long-shot CA schools, Brandeis, RPI, WPI, Rochester, Lafayette. We’ll know about WPI and RPI by February.
- How’s your winter driving? I survived driving from Ohio to NYC last February but I’ll admit that bringing my Wisconsinite husband on this trip is giving me peace of mind.
- Why not wait until April? Mostly because he’s also looking at schools in MA, MN, CO, CA, WA, and OR and we’re not going to be able to visit them all. I’d like to get an honest look at what it’s like to be in Ohio, PA, or Upstate NY in February. I’m guessing he won’t love them all. It will simplify things immeasurably to be able to eliminate some options before then.
- What are you going to do with Speedwagon-the-quail while you’re traveling? (2025 parents know that S25 decided to hatch a quail over the Christmas holidays. S/he’s cute! Quail-sitting plans are TBD.)
Speedwagon photo, just because we all need a little more baby quail in our lives: