<p>alright so there is this one guy that i really really really really like, and to tell you the truth I dont even know him at all. He doesnt go to my school but hes a part of my church. I am in highschool right now and i come from a culture where its not good to talk to boys like that. however, a lot of my friends have boyfriends now and i sort of …feel left out you know? so i guess…i really dnt even know how this whole ordeal began…but for some reason i started pretending that i really talk the guy taht i like, likes me too and that he talks to me “secretly” not in public and htat i actually KNOW him. but in reality i am sure he prolly doesnt even know my name. but, ive been pretending like he really knows me. now, next week theres a church party where my parents alogn with many otehr parents arent going to be there,but he is. Now, i havent talked to him once, but my friends think i talk to him like everyday. and i know for a fact that if he doesnt talk to me at the party and i dont talk to him everyones going to get suspicous…because i sort of played up my secret “relationship” with him a lot. </p>
<p>honestly i dont even know why i did this whole thing. but what should i do nowww to avoid any embrassment for me AND him when we go to that party.</p>
<p>remeber - i HAVE NOT talked to him at all before, and so telling him this story would simply not work…because I really dnt know him…i just sorta…you know…like him</p>
<p>AHHHHH. seriously. this is what i get for lying. im so dumb :(</p>
<p>wow =/ don’t go to the party…do your friends know who he is…and what he looks like? b/c if you don’t go…but your friends go…it’ll still be a problem…if nothing works out just confess…and tell this kid. but you shouldn’t have started this in the first place…a lie even a “white lie” is a lie after all.</p>
<p>ahhh i cant do that either…because I helped organize the party and my parents are really involved in the church…so i pretty much cant make up an excuse :(</p>
<p>Are you guys kidding? Guys love this kind of stuff.</p>
<p>It will at least be a boost to his confidence if he finds out. It’s a compliment for a girl to like you, no matter who the girl is. Go to the party and talk to him.</p>
<p>^ I was going to advise you to tell him, too. It’s definitely something you two could laugh about, and who knows – he might end up developing a crush on you, lol.</p>
<p>Pretend like you drop your pencil on accident and then when he goes down to pick it up quickly rub your BOOOBIES on his back and he’ll be hooked like you guys been talking nonstop like you’ve been saying all along, your friends won’t notice a thing</p>
<p>Sad route: Pretend to be sick. Risk your friends talking to this guy anyway while you’re not there to monitor.</p>
<p>Brave route: Tell him. Be like, “Oh, so this is kind of weird, but all of my friends have boyfriends and I kind of told them that you and I had a little thing. And obviously we don’t, but could you pretend to, just for the party? God, I’m such an idiot haha.”</p>
<p>He’ll honestly probably be fine with it. A little weirded out, but fine. It’s like when a creeper asks you out or tries to flirt with you and you grab your guy friend and pretend he’s your boyfriend. It’s a massive confidence boost for the guy–I mean, HE’s the one you picked to be your fake boyfriend. It’s strange, but still flattering.</p>
<p>HELL NO are you serious? she shouldn’t ever tell him … THAT’D BE SO EMBARRASSING, he’ll think she is a major creep, immature, dumb, etc. it’d be a huge turn off, not flattering.</p>
<p>stupidist idea EVAR. Trust me. </p>
<p>Put moves on him at the party like you already know him, but be coy about it. If worse comes to worse, call in sick.</p>
<p>The thing is, girls are chatty. So your friends are going to talk to this guy. If he’s not playing the game, you’re screwed. So admit your fault…or get him in on it. It definitely has the potential to be creepy, I’m not going to lie, but if you’ve talked a few times or at least aren’t complete strangers, admitting it isn’t that weird. You’re not going “OMG I LOVE YOUUUU.” You’re just saying that you pretended to have a guy, and now you need someone to pretend to be that guy.</p>
<p>Really, it’s all in your attitude. Act like you’re embarrassed and stupid and you’ll have a crappy night. Admit your lie to one party or the other and you’ll be fine.</p>
<p>Go up to him and give him a big hug and just start talking. Meeting new people isn’t that hard, and if your friends don’t notice that you two look kinda awkward for the first couple minutes you’re talking, you’ll be fine!</p>