"on a break"

College Life
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<p>soo my boyfriend and i decided we should take a break (whatever that means…), mostly because i need time to figure out if i want to be single right now. he wants to be with me, so he’s basically just waiting for me to decide…</p>

<p>think it’s best to do this kind of thing cold-turkey & not see each other at all? my friends seem to think that’s the best way, but i usually see him so much that i think the huge routine change will be the worst part & i’ll just get “homesick” and give up before i should…</p>

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<p>Focus on your studies during the week. Have fun with your friends during the weekends. Go out–have fun–meet new people–go to events on campus–live your life. At your age, to stay in a relationship because it’s routine isn’t a good idea. It limits you from getting out of your comfort zone and experiencing new things (new people, new activities, new friendships, new hobbies, etc.).</p>

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<p>that is very sweet of him</p>

<p>do what your heart tells you to…i can’t advise you because i don’t know either of you</p>

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<p>Not to be redundant, but didn’t you say “i need time to figure out if i want to be single right now.” If you’re seeing him often, you’re not really “single.” I agree with your friends. Cold turkey this. Busy yourself with other things to make a temporary routine. Your heart will do the rest…</p>

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<p>Id suggest you ignore him! Then it will spice up the relationship, he will figure out how much feelings he has for you. Same with you, youd might be suprized.</p>

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<p>My plan, </p>

<p>We can pretend we are going out and thus making your BF jealous and make him rush back to you. Not to be creepy or anything, but your info says “blue heaven”, so I think that means Chapel Hill right?</p>

<p>Whats even better is that I am from Chapel Thrill and know UNC like the back of my hand. We can go to La Residence to eat, then Varsity for a movie, and last Cafe Driade for coffee. </p>

<p>I will only charge a minimal service fee. </p>

<p>hahaha, i m jk. </p>

<p>I hope everything works out fine. I would not call him him for a least a week.</p>

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<p>My “friends” and I just don’t really pay attention to each other during the week. </p>

<p>Single is a good choice.</p>

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<p>If he goes out with someone else and fool around during the “break” does it still counts as cheating?</p>

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<p>^^basically, it does if HE hooks up with someone else…but if i do, i’d totally be able to talk my way out of any consequences…</p>

<p>hello_motto: i was excited to get asked on a date to eat at la rez, but then realized you wanted to charge a service fee ;)</p>

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<p>^ nice job, playette</p>