<p>Cheers…I did not intend to “hurl” any criticism! For the majority of my career I have not been a full stay-at-home mom either, although I have worked part-time for much of it… It appears I hit a nerve, however, and that was not intended. You are correct that we need to support all the choices. I think if you re-read my post, I was simply stating a fact, not making any judgment. It is a choice. To be able to focus on any career full time, especially while raising a family, you have to delegate, hire, or have support systems in place. Trying to “do it all” also comes at a price! Women are SLOWLY being able to make that choice, but more often than not, the family responsibilities fall to the woman. Full-share spouses are more common today, but even so, I think it is often in an assistant capacity. As an analogy, there’s a huge difference between being in charge of a committee vs. being a worker bee on the committee. I think (but no facts to back it up), that while many men freely offer assistance, they are not the ones who mentally take charge of the numerous jobs of raising children. This extends way beyond household chores, and includes the children’s healthcare, education , etc. That has not been the case in my family, but I still know plenty of professional couples that follow that pattern.</p>
<p>Many successful men & women in any field (not just architecture), have those support systems in place. In professional careers such as law, medicine or business, the financial rewards of the job usually allow them to hire assistance. Architecture salaries typically do not allow it, at least early in the career which would coincide with young children. Some professionals have a “wife” to take on the other required life tasks. I’ve known very few stay-at-home dads. Typcially it is the woman. Or, they have spouses whose careers allow them to take chances early in their own. Many years ago, one of my firms took an informal survey at an office party (just a show of hands) asking how many of the men were married to teachers. I was shocked at the number who raised their hands. Obviously it was not planned that way, and perhaps that firm was the exception. However, with so many being married to teachers, I also realized they had school holiday and summer care-givers, typically a great health care benefit package through their spouse’s employment, and steady albeit limited income. It allowed them to take more chances, perhaps to start out on their own, building firms from small beginnings, or even working incredible overtime at a firm Some successful architects also got their start because they had significant (wealthy) connections early. These are just examples, and by no means apply to everyone. Having support systems in place (financial, connections, assisance, etc.) all make it “easier”-- for men OR women. I just think women traditionally have fewer support options, especially as young mothers.</p>
<p>Most architecture firms were not family friendly. Part-time, job sharing, and other creative family solutions are still rare. My guess is it is similar in high-powered law and business firms? My hope was that this is changing with more women entering the field, but evidently not. Perhaps it is because the field remains male dominated, and they don’t see the same needs. There are also not many architecture “mega-firms”, and smaller firms traditionally do not have the same personnel requirements and benefit packages that you often find at the larger companies (such as hospitals, or big corporations). While I’ve been able to work part-time, it has rarely been for a large firm. Either it has been on my own, or working with smaller firms on an as-needed basis. Most larger firms I know will not hire part-time, unless you’ve been working there full-time first. They would rather keep a trusted and trained employee than lose them, but don’t want to start out on a part-time basis. This in turn, prevents many part-timers from changing firms, which is sometimes the only way to advance. It also often restricts part time employees to little or no benefits (including health care, which is imperitive with young families). </p>
<p>One lesson I learned later than I preferred, was that it was much tougher for females at a male dominated firm to be mentored. Males typically mentored other males. Rarely did they ask me to join them at a baseball game after work, or a round of golf on the weekend. Maybe their wives would not approve. Perhaps if they weren’t married (or maybe if they were), they were afraid it may suggest they were “interested”. Or maybe they just didn’t like me
I never thought much about it at the time. I had my own social life separate from the firm. But where is the office “politics” discussed? Where are many “behind the scenes” decisions made? I had no female mentors (I was the first woman at my firm). In later firms with more female employees it was significantly different, but typically they were still not in management positions. Perhaps that should be a pre-requisite for young female architects who are seeking employment.</p>
<p>I’m registered, but fell under the old system (no IDP, no required experiences). It was easier back then, and could be condensed into a shorter time period. I was registered less than 2 years after I graduated w/ a professional Master’s degree,. Plus, I went to grad. school immediately after undergrad. I also postponed having a family until after registration. It was not planned; it just happened that way. With today’s requirements (IDP, etc.), coupled with the recent history that many choose to work after their undergraduate degree before applying to graduate school, it takes a lot longer to become registered. This process now falls at a more inconvenient time period for females if they are listening to the “biological clock”. </p>
<p>Cheers mentioned women MBA’s have similar patterns. It is my understanding that MBA’s also have a break period between degrees. One student told me that you MUST have work experience before applying to MBA programs. Again, the MBA track extends the time period which makes it difficult for the females who choose to be parents, because they usually do not have the same support systems in place. A Law degree has no such intern requirement to my knowledge. Medicine obviously does, however. </p>
<p>I’m not sure about any downside in the education system. other than the potential lack of women mentors (who are or have been practicing architects). Do more women drop out in architecture programs than other professional degrees? </p>
<p>This sounds pessimistic, but I don’t think it needs to be. It is changing – just slower than we would like
I also think the architecture career gives both men and women a lot of options.</p>