3.94 UW, 5.0 weighted and 4.6 recalculated removing non AP electives and adding .5 honors and 1.0 to AP/AICE. 1460 SAT, top 6% of class in competitive, high performing school, AP scholar with distinction. Very high rigor. Good extracurriculars and leadership. Nothing earth shattering. Undecided major.
Depends on in state/oos, but my ds got 12k per year oos with lower stats, so that should give you a baseline. I believe URI publishes their merit scholarship cutoffs pretty transparently on their website.