Our Thanksgiving Game

Relative posed this: You’ve unexpectedly been given $50,000. You can’t save it. You can’t spend it on Education or Mortgage or a car or home upgrades/ repair ( you can on furniture) You can’t give more than 10 percent to Charity. You can’t give any away and can spend on others only for things with you ( a trip, theater etc…) You must make all allocations now and spend within 5 years. Your allocations? Ours:

5 k to charity
20 K for one super nice vacation with adult kids
10k for nice dining over 5 years taking (friends/ family)
5k for theater with kids friends over the period
5 k for new bedroom set
5k on books, newspaper subs over the period that we would,t otherwise buy outright.

This seems not very Thanksgiving-y if you have severe limitations on giving it away to others lol.

Who would give you money and specify that you cannot give it to charity?

I’ll bite without nit-picking the rules of the game. :slight_smile:

I’d spend it on travel with family, VIP tickets to major music festivals with family and friends, and artwork. Can I have more than $50K, please? :smiley:

Man, I want to spend it on remodeling. But I guess I’ll spend it on travel.

I would spend it all on a commodity like gold, sit on it for the required 5 years, and then spend it on anything I want and/or give it away! Some rules are meant to be broken.

Hmmm,
-$5000 to charity,
-A whole bunch to a young lady I know battling a cancer with a poor prognosis-to help with their medical bills and current medical travel
-Really nice John Deere lawnmowers for my sons (we can mow together, does that count?)
-A nice tractor (small farm size) with a good bucket and plow

My kids will never be away from home for more than a few days due to their 2nd businesses/livestock. I don’t want to spend a ton on travel for myself.

@sryrstress - prayers for the young lady, her family, and you. I hate cancer.
5k to charity - half to The Cure Starts Now, the rest to other charities to benefit children
20K for travel with family
10K for sporting events, theatre, dinners out
5K for new furniture for me
5K for new furniture for D
5K for new furniture for S
That went fast.

I’ll play.
5k to charity- mostly environmental and wildlife groups
45k for travel
I don’t need that much furniture anymore and I would love to take the kids and grandchild and us places!

$30,000 for trip.
$5,000 to charity.
$15,000 on a second vacation in five years.

"Who would give you money and specify that you cannot give it to charity?

I think the purpose of this “game” was to find out what non-charitable things we would prioritize spending on. (And also this relative has set up a charitable trust that we will get to control.) The other things were to also get at this question.

“I would spend it all on a commodity like gold, sit on it for the required 5 years, and then spend it on anything I want and/or give it away”. Nope. Someone tried that. He said that constituted savings. Lol!

It was truly intersting to hear all the relatives choices.

Hmmmm, what about all the gift to others in the form of furniture or medical treatment? Still gifts?

5K charity - either food bank/garden related or child related
10K - furniture or other household items not related to repair
20K - travel to include kids and significant others - one trip per year for 5 years!
5k - furniture and beach toys (not the little kid variety!) for our cottage
3K - excellent concert tickets for 3-5 concerts (I MIGHT become a Coldplay groupie…)
7K - spontaneous cash for splurges - fabulous day trips with great food!

“Hmmmm, what about all the gift to others in the form of furniture or medical treatment? Still gifts?”

Yes. You got “called out” on that if you tried that. LOL!

My charity donations would,go to several places. Four undergraduate colleges (DH, 2 kids, and mine), and the children’s choir my kids sang in.

We donate to these anyway…but it,would be nice to give a larger amount.

Travel and theatre tickets.

$5,000 to charity
$20,000 to repair/upgrade the house - roof etc. (I suppose someone might call me out on that because we expect to sell it soon, but it needs it.)
$25,000 for travel with family. Go somewhere interesting and they will want to come!

Oh, I didn’t realize that furniture is allowed. Definitely new leather living room furniture.