The can have PT and OT come to the patient and perform it where the patient resides so no need to transport. Mom had a few sessions and they helped her some in keeping her strength & mobility.
Last fall, my neck started hurting and by January I had to support it when sitting up because of the pain. I saw an orthopedic PA in March and have been getting PT for three months, which has been a tremendous help (especially the neck massage). I definitely have age related degeneration and am getting an MRI next week just to rule out anything else.
But while I was waiting for my PA appointment, I began using the cervical pillow I had gotten for my eyelid etc. surgery last year. It really helped; much better than trying to stack pillows. (I also stopped leaning over my iPad at the dining table for hours on end. That position aggravated the condition.)
So maybe start with something like that at a minimum? Can’t hurt; might help.
This is the one I bought:
I know there are also support pillows/cushions et al for chairs; perhaps she would be more comfortable sitting with something supporting her shoulders and neck so they don’t strain.
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A physical therapist should be able to recommend a proper neck support.
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Well, mom passed away this morning, on her 83rd birthday. I can’t believe how quickly things went south. I’m relieved that she’s peaceful now, but ugh, just ugh. 
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I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s a lot to process in such a short period of time. Praying that happy memories will bring your comfort and peace.
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I’m so sorry! It’s never easy to lose our loved ones, and moms are pretty special. Hugs to you.
Hugs. It’s so tough. 
I’m so sorry, it is stunning when our loved ones slip away quickly.
I’m so sorry. I know you expressed that things seemed to be proceeding quickly, but this was even quicker than the timeline her doctor gave you. I hope you have some peace knowing the solid care you provided her in the final days.
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I’m so very very sorry to hear about your mom’s very quick passing. Agree, she is probably at peace now. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Ugh…. that was quick, tough for you all I’m sure. Best wishes for peace in your heart and for stamina in the coming days and weeks.
When one is well-loved, the grieving is going to happen for those who miss her. A blessing to know she is peaceful now, but sending hugs and caring your way.
I just returned from a funeral (airline travel/connecting flights, effort to get there but widow/friend so glad I came and I am glad too), and DH is leaving in the morning for his aunt’s funeral - 850 mile drive – they will be glad he came too.
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I’m so, so sorry. Very similar to my mom, who passed quickly two months before her 83rd birthday. I miss her every day.
My dad is not sounding good. Last night on the phone he was slurring words and repeating phrases multiple times. I’ve never heard him like this. They did a UTI test on him, but it was negative. My sister said it’s like he’s so sleepy he dozes off constantly and forgets what he’s just said. Ugh. We’re hoping he does better when he gets home, since he hasn’t gotten a good night’s sleep in the hospital for weeks now.
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Have you considered a quick visit? I know “quick” and “visit” are not always easy to just do.
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It’s funny you mentioned that, I was just thinking about it. I try to avoid going to Texas in the summer, but sometimes you do what you have to do.
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so sorry for your loss Justamom. How sad it is exactly her birthday too.
@MaineLonghorn good luck with the travel, you won’t regret it either way.
Sorry for your loss. I know the feeling of relief on her behalf, yet grief and adjustments inevitably accompany it. All the best to you in the coming days.
Wishing you and your family well with grieving and all the necessary “stuff”.
So very sorry for you loss.